Well, I am not a minor however I do still live with my parents.
I was in the Sea Org for about 5 years, since then I have gained quite a bit of experience working in offices as either a receptionist or office manager. I have a many non-scn friends but haven't been able to save up enough money to just drop and run.
i have to continue going to the church for fear I will loose my job and my family is very much involved. I am essentially stuck.
My friends say I should just pack my things and disappear.
Thanks. Getting out of the SO was your best move yet. The SO is about as 'in' the cult as you can get. I presume you routed out, not blew, since you are still in good standing. Congrats on doing this! BTW, I was also in the SO and blew over 35 years ago. I consider that decision one of the best and most important in my life.
First order of business, as has been mentioned, is to find another job. You should be
laser focused on doing this because without income you are extremely limited in your choices of almost everything. Keep looking every day. Attend job fairs. Once you secure another position, save as much money as you can (you have your own bank account right?) and move out into your own place. When you put distance between you and your parents, you will gain independence and freedom.
Second, spend as little time as possible in the org. Slowly reduce the time you spend there. If questioned about your 'loyalty' to the cult, never criticize it (you know how you will be labeled and the negative attention you will receive). You can say you are kind of bored with it now or you want to use what you have learned there to do other things.
Third, make a 1 and 5 year plans for your life. Where do you want to be in 1 year, then in 5 years? What do you like to do? Really consider getting training in a profession or going to school with the goal of making more income. Also, stop using cult terminology in your speech and thinking...this will be hard to do but will begin to get you out of the cult brainwashing.
About leaving your family: While this is certainly an option, the consequences are severe. The emotional impact may be too difficult to deal with. You may run out of money and have to return to your parents house.
Good luck!