Just because I asked for a plan to be paid back doesn't mean there was Scientology in my home LOL.
I don't know how much money was under consideration, but I don't think that it was so much that there was a
written plan necessary, within 72 hours. Written plans for every sh*t are typically for Scientology and are called CSW (Completed Staff Work):
COMPLETED STAFF WORK, ..... 2. an assembled dispatch or packet which
(1) states the situation,
(2) gives all the data necessary to its solution,
(3) advises a solution, and
(4) contains a line for approval or disapproval by myself with my signature. .... (HCO PL.21 Nov 62)
The same applies to a target within a given time frame, typical for Scientology:
TARGET(S), an objective one intends to accomplish within a given period of time.
TARGET APPORTIONMENT OFFICER, the Target Apportionment Officer apportions short-range targets to other groups which when all done make up the completion of long-range targets for the whole area. (HCO PL 2 Dec 68)
BTW, if someone would demand from me such a written plan, (s)he would get a similar answer: "
My plan is that you sue me. The reason is, that when I have to waste my time for unnecessary paperwork then the best is when I will do it at the court. That is the typical place for such stuff."
Farthest from the truth. He was not preparing for a divorce !! I have no idea where you got that idea ??
Now let's see:
Do you remember what you promised at your marriage ? Exactly, "
Till death does part us." Not a judge, the death... Now, did he lend a hand to Mr. Death by shooting at you (and later at himself) ? Did he have already a gun ? If yes, then he was prepared for a divorce without a court....
We were both heated up and arguing. Have you never said anything you didn't mean during an argument ?
No, even in a heated discussion I mean everything exactly the way I say it - as you can see in my explanations above. BTW, I have never been a political correct sycophant, unlike some poopers.
No, I am far away from being perfect, but it is not necessary to be perfect for this...
FIY, men are different than women. For example I have observed that men are like dogs. If two dogs are fighting and one lays on his back, the other dog stops fighting. If two men are fighting, as soon as one of them has the cognition, that the other could be stronger he pays the next beer at the bar and peace comes back. If two women are fighting, the fight is more brutal and lasts much longer.
What can we learn from that ? Men basically want their peace, but women always want an immediate solution for what actually crosses their mind. Here is a typical example:
We agreed to stay away from each other. On March 16th I sent a couple more emails to him but no response.
Is "sending a couple more emails" "staying away from each other" ? IMHO, no - it is more the effort for "an immediate solution for what actually crosses the mind". Naturally this nagging efforts lead to conflicts and since men primarily want their peace they look for a solution to remove the disturbing factors from their life - sometimes by leaving the battlefield, sometimes by applying force....
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