I'm no longer married, so one could say;
that whilst some wear rings of gold
and others rings of brass,
the only ring that I wear,
is the ring around my ass.
I learned the hard way about marriage. If the girl is already fucking you, marrying her is fucking DUMB.
If she's not fucking you, perhaps marriage might change things. Then again, there are other women that don't require a contract to fuck you, and I think that's a better plan.