Pooks
MERCHANT OF CHAOS
Aah, Pooks, feel honored that the guys are "hitting on" you.
Hopefully they are managing to do it with some charm . . . but either way it is a compliment in the scheme of things
We are never too old to start new adventures; there is so much that is worthwhile to explore and experience in the game of life.
One of the case areas I am expanding on currently is that of "Harmonious Alignment" . . . that is: relationships.
It's proving to be a ton of revelations, and wonderful.
But also what has happened for me is that some very old, pre-$cn, dear friends sought me out via FaceBook . . . . these are the guys I grew up with in Sydney from age 5.
Reconnecting with them after an absence of 50 years has been one hell of a blast! The mutual respect and admiration that flowed actually was amazing to experience. It's all part of my universe opening up on the subject of relationships.
Also very interesting has been the huge change for the better in my relationship with my sweet Virginia and all the new contacts I make in daily life. I see folks in a whole new light.
So I say: go for the game! Know what it is you want in life and from life, and live it.
But having said that, I'd say that it is important to know what one wants to have in life and relationships so one can better and more optimumly harmoniously align the relationships one does engage in.
Humans too often orient into the "sex thing" as relating . . . . and so the pretty girls get "hit on." Apparently, it's one of those "supposed to do things" some guys have running. But to be honest, I find I get enormous appreciation from the ladies because I honor them as wonderful people and not particularly as beautiful bodies to be screwed.
And what I find rewarding is that the best of the girls appreciate being honored rather than "hit on."
So I say, set your standards and play the game the way you want and choose to And the good men you meet with will relate better with you because of it.
Rog
Harmony. This is a key word for me. Thanks.