So true. Long, long ago I was married to one of them there oateeeeees who responded in exactly the way you say after losing every penny he had inherited and (at the time) it was a lot. If he had wisened up after losing all I think I could have handled it but he didn't and I couldn't ... so as soon as I could I wandered off with my babies and made my own money and lived happily ever after (sort of, he did manage to separate disconnect the children from me once they were raised and doing well so I suppose there is that). I'm currently looking for a lovely dogs home to leave my money to when I drop dead (not planning on doing that anytime soon though). You've gotta see the funny side of these things ... or life would be a bit rubbish.