Scientology only has ONE dating service that we know about and that is David Miscavige's COB's secret dating service provided to those that David Miscavige, leader, deems important enough to deserve it. The Church of Scientology lies about providing Tom Cruise this service - but the truth came out.
The divorce rate in Scientology are staggering. Those stats are straight up and vertical. Here is how it works:
If you are new to Scientology and having marital problems, you will be told they provide marriage counseling. This consists of paying $700 for an auditor in training - to take you and your spouse in session. They will put one on the cans (e-meter) and ask that person in front of their spouse - WHAT HAVE YOU DONE TO YOUR SPOUSE? WHAT HAVE YOU WITHHELD? This will go on until they cannot find any more sins committed against each other.
Then you will get a communication course - where you get indoctrinated into the first level of control - this is where they start to control you. Of course, because the PTS/SP course actually tells you all about suppression - you least expect the Church of Scientology and have no idea what extent the Church of Scientology will go to so that the truth is hidden and nothing but lies are promoted!!
It is too much to even conceive and all the clay demos in the world would not give you the conceptual reality of what you have really entered - an evil cult that will take everything from you in exchange for a broken spirit, a broken heart, sometimes a broken mind. Why do you think they have you sign all the legal documents? They will tell you that SP's are out to get em - but it defies reason. The only problem is - by now they have set a trap and you want more!
You may feel better after all of this - who wouldn't? You admit the things you did to your spouse and talk about them. Then you confront each other and continue talking. That makes sense.
But lets say one of partners has a problem with spending $$$,$$$ for more auditing the other one WANTS!! Well, then they are routed onto the PTS / SP course where L Ron Hubbard states: "Anyone critical of Scientology is hiding huge crimes - sordid ones like eating babies etc".
This gets the other party thinking that their spouse must be doing something really bad but is keeping it secret. This is the wedge that is slightly tapped into the consciousness and then the rest of Scientology's tech can get poured in.
Scientology now becomes a 3rd party to the conflict between the two spouses. If one wants to continue Scientology - the other one better just accept it or their marriage will be over.
So typically what happens is the other one just keeps quiet while the one doing Scientology trashes their finances. They will donate money without spouses knowledge or permission. This is encouraged by the regges and heavily promoted. "It is your freedom"
who is suppressing it? One will pay for many PTS rundowns etc....and if the spouse keeps showing up as the one who is suppressing their spiritual freedom - well, time to divorce that SP!! Of course, Scientology will not tell you that directly. They covertly mask it with the tech.
If the spouses don't have a common budget and financial rules within their household solidly in place - they will be destroyed. Many families don't have this so they get creamed!
Finanical ruin is the EP of Scientology.
Don't believe me - talk to Scientologists. Many will say with no change of facial expression - "yeah, I am losing my house to foreclosure - but I got up to Grade III". "I filed Bankruptcy but I did my L11". Yes, I did refinance my home to become a humanitarian but I want to help clear the planet. No - my house is not worth what I owe on it so I think I'll just give it back to the bank".
I wish I could name names here and post the public information - but 95% of the Scientologists I know still active are broke, bankrupt or have had their houses foreclosed on. Dedicated staff members that have given everything to Scientology - losing their homes and filing bankruptcy. No emotional reaction at all from them either.
The spouse that wants to do Scientology - will be regged for courses and auditing at a rabid pace and
not told to check with their spouse...in fact, discouraged. Scientology creates divorces and their marriage counseling is another "front".
Scientology creates an environment in the family where everyone is a suspect EXCEPT Scientology. Soon - marriages crumble, the families are destroyed and left broke and broken.