Which Mike cannot do without potentially exposing himself to civil and criminal liability -- and thus threatening his family. As I noted above, Mike cannot rely on any statute of limitations defense because of legal doctrines that suspend the running of the statute of limitations such as fraudulent concealment, equitable tolling, equitable estoppel, minority, incapacity, or simply being physically outside a particular jurisdction. My advice to Mike would be not to do it. If, hypothetically, I had a wife and child I would not endanger their futures and our family to do it. If Gerry didn't like that, I would completely understand. I would not, however, engage in an action that could threaten my family just because he is not satisfied with a "general" apology and wants "specific details that can stand up in a court of law." Honestly, I think that if Mike didn't have a wife and child, then there *might* be some chance that Gerry would get what he wants. Given that Mike does have a wife and a small child, I think the probability of Gerry getting what he wants is precisely zero.