Hey, I know what might be fun. Stories about stupid ass fucking KRs! Ok, we know that CofS' justice system is for the birds and that Scn ethics is problematic- and that's putting it kindly (since I know there are those here who try to use Scn ethics in a kinder, gentler, heretical sort of setting)- and that just about every ex has had ridiculous ethics cycles. I'm not necessarily talking about the hideous brutal ones wherein families were lost and so on. I know there's lots of those and they break my heart. I was thinking that this thread could be a bit less intense- maybe snarkier- and we could talk about the sorts of KRs and minor ethics "cycles" that had us shaking our heads and muttering "what an idiot". I'll go first. I was A/Ping a bit here and there and this idiot reg would phone me always at Thursday around 1 ish. (gee, wonder why he'd call THEN! ) AT MY WORK since I'd (unwisely) given them my work tel #. At this job, our phones had multiple buttons and so someone might grab a call meant for someone else and then call them to the phone as needed. So this idiot, Kevin Allen, would call and it got to the point where my coworkers, in exasperation would say "who's Kevin Allen?". We were collectors in a bank so they were trying to figure out if he was a borrower or why the fuck he was always calling, particularly at Thursday pms (he called other times). So I guess one time I was trying to get him off the phone rather quickly as I had work to do. I didn't realize that he thought I hung up on him. I didn't think anything of it. So later he KRed me and I never got a copy or anything. This dovetails with the next story because the two things combined caused me to be called by the ethics officer for my behavior. So there was this woman, Tammy Harris, who was always phoning and trying to reg, get some a/p going, get me to come in, this and that. Finally, I was like, don't call me, I'll call you. When I moved from one house to another, the new owners wanted to keep (with my permission) my old number to just have that phone number be for that house. So I was like, fine. And they were telling me, "yeah, Tammy Harris called. My, but she's insistent, isn't she." (Fluffy's theory: church staff do not know how to behave in a business like manner on the fucking phone). So one day she called and she's all like "I know you said don't call me, I'll call you BUT" and I fucking BLEW UP at her. I ranted, I raved, I told her I'd rather experience an eternity of blackness and pain. I mean, I'd had it. You guys know I don't put up with harassment and bullshit and that I have a temper. So I let Tammy have it. So she KRd me. Again without giving me a copy. Never knew about it. So I get this nasty letter from the Seattle Org saying I have to come in or face a non enturb order, that they'd seen a pattern. So I had to come in which pissed me off. I then find out that these two idiots had KRd me without giving me a copy. Only one of the KRs was legit, since I can see why one isn't supposed to scream at a staff member- I mean, at least with that one, I really did do something. But with Kevin Allen's bullshit KR? I had no idea he even thought I hung up on him. (though the Thursday afternoon calls to my job DID stop after that.) But the org wouldn't listen and I had to work up through lower conditions.