Survivor , I feel terrible about your situation.
It's brave of you to speak out ; I want you to know that I've spoken to Tory Magoo and Tony Ortega and Galactic Patrol and found them to be compassionate and trustworthy.
Steven Hassan has many excellent books on cult intervention and recovery , and in interviews has said he does pro bono ( for free ) work , to help family members understand cult involvement and how to effectively recover family members.
Many things family , ex-scientologists and press say are specifically guarded against in the conditioning and creation of the cult identity.
The cult member's mind is often boobytrapped for exactly what you , or I might say , Steve is familiar with this practice and how to try to BYPASS it and get to the person's genuine , pre-cult identity.
I wish you the best success , in both getting your message out , and getting your loved one free from cult slavery.