FF thank you for sharing this information. I understand your reasons for holding back some of what you know. I also understand how eager you must be to share what you know. I remember when I first got out of the church and found ESMB (thanks to Kathy) I had several things going on regarding getting myself and friends and family out safely. I wasn't as worried about myself being Fair Gamed as I was about others being harrassed or harmed. I had so much I wanted to tell, but had to time my disclosure and release my story and info in bits and pieces. I was constantly requesting permission to tell. So....I get it Hun. Take your time and don't compromise anyone's safety or confidence. This is good stuff. Please be patient with her folks. I have a feeling she has other stories to share, if we just give her some space here.