One last thing, regarding picking people for long-term relationships:
Beauty fades. Then what you are left with, is who they are on the inside.
Ignore her looks, mentally visualize her ten years older and 40 pounds heavier, and ask yourself "Will I still enjoy her company? Is this the person I want to grow old with? Is this the person I want helping to raise my children?"
If the self-honest answer to any of the above is "no", then walk away.
Dear God, anyone who judges a person almost SOLELY on their physical appearance ? Fucking doomed from the gitgo, bud.
The physical package is only about 2 % of the total person. The other 98 % ( the non physical part of the person ) has a lot to do with who is home.
Hollywood continues to prove tits & ass do tend to age in spite of the best plastic surgery money can buy - well, some people, apparently, are into that one-too-many face re-works that leaves the once beautiful lady looking like a lioness.
But, some people whose choice of a partner is based on physical appearance while at the same time have NO consideration what they
themselves will " look like " in 10 years, 20 years, 30 years, 40 years but GLEEFULLY imagine what their " perhaps " partner will look like in X number of years.
Is that just funny . . . . or so sad ?
Me ? 40 years down the road ? Still feel I married a wonderful person that is still just as wonderful. The best parent I could ever imagine for out children. And still a person others seek out for advice & adore.
Ain't beauty in the eye of the beholder ?
So to think ones partner isn't going to end up " pretty" ?
Is that where that " Life is a bitch " comes from ?
or why we now have a lifetime of "starter" marriages?
Yeah, marry based on physical appearance . . . . . . doesn't
that sound so like a die hard scientologist ?