Night Owl
Patron with Honors
Certainly an ex scn and a scn know what it meant to 'make things go right' and how you are made to feel as a scn when you did so for the greater good.
IN SCN, this 'make things go right' does not apply to relationships & people in general whether they are your spouse, your child or your friend. Even if you felt pain about being forced to divorce or leave your child in another state, or in never seeing your friend again, it was done for the sake of SCN and you were applauded for being a good scn for doing it. The SO has astronomical divorce rates--paralelled by no other religion.
'Making things go right' as it concerned your relationships, meant doing what was best for SCN above all. In SCN, people, spouses, & children are expendable and do not take precedence over the 'stated' aims and goals of SCN which in reality, is, to continue the operation of a rich cult.
AFTER leaving SCN, one wonders how well people have been able to 'rehab their ability' to make things go right in their marriages, family and relationships. Making things go right in a relationship is remembering the importance that a person or your family had for you before you 'learned' that loving and leaving was on par with changing rooms in a hotel.
One wonders if ex scn's can or do return to the state of putting family, spouse and children first above all --as it should be, and sacrificing if needed to preserve it.
One wonders if it easier for an ex scn to leave a spouse, family or friend than it would have been before they were ever indoctrinated into viewing people and family as unimportant.
For me, it took reading and viewing the stories here and xenu.net. From there I now have more allegiance to my spouse and family and friends than I ever did in my life. If anything, it is stronger now than ever.
This can be a challenge to look at honestly.
(p.s.this discussion does not apply to a relationship status in a forced disconnection situation still present)
IN SCN, this 'make things go right' does not apply to relationships & people in general whether they are your spouse, your child or your friend. Even if you felt pain about being forced to divorce or leave your child in another state, or in never seeing your friend again, it was done for the sake of SCN and you were applauded for being a good scn for doing it. The SO has astronomical divorce rates--paralelled by no other religion.
'Making things go right' as it concerned your relationships, meant doing what was best for SCN above all. In SCN, people, spouses, & children are expendable and do not take precedence over the 'stated' aims and goals of SCN which in reality, is, to continue the operation of a rich cult.
AFTER leaving SCN, one wonders how well people have been able to 'rehab their ability' to make things go right in their marriages, family and relationships. Making things go right in a relationship is remembering the importance that a person or your family had for you before you 'learned' that loving and leaving was on par with changing rooms in a hotel.
One wonders if ex scn's can or do return to the state of putting family, spouse and children first above all --as it should be, and sacrificing if needed to preserve it.
One wonders if it easier for an ex scn to leave a spouse, family or friend than it would have been before they were ever indoctrinated into viewing people and family as unimportant.
For me, it took reading and viewing the stories here and xenu.net. From there I now have more allegiance to my spouse and family and friends than I ever did in my life. If anything, it is stronger now than ever.
This can be a challenge to look at honestly.
(p.s.this discussion does not apply to a relationship status in a forced disconnection situation still present)
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