Ted
Gold Meritorious Patron
The Dalai Lama Says...
Dalai Lama: "The simple recognition that everyone else wants to be happy and not to suffer, just as I do, serves as a constant reminder against selfishness and partiality. It reminds us there is little to be gained from being kind and generous while hoping to win something in return. Actions motivated by a desire to earn a good name for ourselves are still selfish, even if they appear to be acts of kindness."
Think about that in relation to "OT."
How much good are you or I willing to do while receiving absolutely no recognition? Hell, I post using my real name. A little bit of recognition, or the slight chance of recognition, is all I need. Yet, it is still selfish.
On the other hand, I give a bit to charity every month. I give money to strangers in need. I give motorist the right of way, usually. And more... All that without any expectation of earning a good name for myself.
Here I am thinking out loud: My wife and I give to the young 'uns without any expectation or desire to earn a good name. Nevertheless, everyone who knows us and our young 'uns will compliment on what fine people they are, each and every one. And their friends compliment them on what fine parents they must have.
Now I am waking up: So, the key word above is "desire." Recognition can come one's way by reason of being alive and participating in the process. To desire is something else.

Thank you for listening.
Oops. That's a desire, a desired audience. Oh, well...
Dalai Lama: "The simple recognition that everyone else wants to be happy and not to suffer, just as I do, serves as a constant reminder against selfishness and partiality. It reminds us there is little to be gained from being kind and generous while hoping to win something in return. Actions motivated by a desire to earn a good name for ourselves are still selfish, even if they appear to be acts of kindness."
Think about that in relation to "OT."
How much good are you or I willing to do while receiving absolutely no recognition? Hell, I post using my real name. A little bit of recognition, or the slight chance of recognition, is all I need. Yet, it is still selfish.
On the other hand, I give a bit to charity every month. I give money to strangers in need. I give motorist the right of way, usually. And more... All that without any expectation of earning a good name for myself.
Here I am thinking out loud: My wife and I give to the young 'uns without any expectation or desire to earn a good name. Nevertheless, everyone who knows us and our young 'uns will compliment on what fine people they are, each and every one. And their friends compliment them on what fine parents they must have.
Now I am waking up: So, the key word above is "desire." Recognition can come one's way by reason of being alive and participating in the process. To desire is something else.
Thank you for listening.
Oops. That's a desire, a desired audience. Oh, well...







