Sis O' Sign
Patron with Honors
Could you tech savvy guys, please help out an untrained chick a little bit on this one:
There's two data that I always found conflicting and just never could get working together. But I know people who did use it with great success - so it must be my lack of training, MUs or whatever.
"Intention is cause" - this was always real for me: whenever I REALLY wanted something and focused on it, envisioned it, lived it in my imagination etcetera, I eventually got it.
But there is an area where I am just not able to do this, and that subject is a real crap in my life. The advice I got from Scientologists on this was to apply the reverse vector: when you stop wanting the thing you actually want and you don't want it at all - then you'll get it. I did get a few real examples from my friends own lives of what happened: for example how they got the girls who were not interested in them, by turning their backs to them till the girls approached them, and they are the happiest couples ever since.
I think that the explanation for this with the outflow-inflow did make sense for me in the PDC lecture, still I can't grasp the whole thing: how can I and why should I un-want something that I do want and kept my focus on?
It happened so many times that I wanted a particular thing so much but never got it (while this worked very well with other subjects, in other areas of life) - and I was simply not able to un-want or reject it, push it away from me. Because I wanted it, simple, no?
One datum says: want something and you will get it - the other says: don't want it and you will get it.
Is it that I don't understand something in this, or is it that it doesn't make sense, because it's indeed a contradiction?
Any recommendations of how to solve this situation when I can apply the "Intention is cause" stuff in many things but one particular subject? And I am simply not able to not want something that I do want, only so that I do get that thing.
It could probably answer one of the biggest questions of my life, so I will appreciate your responses.
There's two data that I always found conflicting and just never could get working together. But I know people who did use it with great success - so it must be my lack of training, MUs or whatever.
"Intention is cause" - this was always real for me: whenever I REALLY wanted something and focused on it, envisioned it, lived it in my imagination etcetera, I eventually got it.
But there is an area where I am just not able to do this, and that subject is a real crap in my life. The advice I got from Scientologists on this was to apply the reverse vector: when you stop wanting the thing you actually want and you don't want it at all - then you'll get it. I did get a few real examples from my friends own lives of what happened: for example how they got the girls who were not interested in them, by turning their backs to them till the girls approached them, and they are the happiest couples ever since.
I think that the explanation for this with the outflow-inflow did make sense for me in the PDC lecture, still I can't grasp the whole thing: how can I and why should I un-want something that I do want and kept my focus on?
It happened so many times that I wanted a particular thing so much but never got it (while this worked very well with other subjects, in other areas of life) - and I was simply not able to un-want or reject it, push it away from me. Because I wanted it, simple, no?
One datum says: want something and you will get it - the other says: don't want it and you will get it.
Is it that I don't understand something in this, or is it that it doesn't make sense, because it's indeed a contradiction?
Any recommendations of how to solve this situation when I can apply the "Intention is cause" stuff in many things but one particular subject? And I am simply not able to not want something that I do want, only so that I do get that thing.
It could probably answer one of the biggest questions of my life, so I will appreciate your responses.