Thank you for your kind response. The Colt 45 Handling was, of course, a semi-joke.
Of course, this particular person has been a true and loyal friend for many, many years. I would not get so aggrivated otherwise.
She will do what she wants. But at least, I know now, that I have done EVERYTHING in my power, to try to "wake her up."
She was with me.
Her life was destroyed.
My career was destroyed.
She KNOWS how SCN behaved.
She knows how OUT their "ethics" are.
She still paying off the results of being MASSIVELY over-regged, (just as Debbie Cook described)..
AND STILL.... she wants to re-join.
I love my friend.
We've been through a LOT together.
However, I cannot save her, if she WON'T be saved.
Life goes on!
Sounds very wise of you!
Thank you Marjan, for clarifying that you were using sarcasm and humor to make a point...I thought it likely so, but unfortunately OSA culls boards like ours for anything they can take out of context as a quote and use to try and spin lies to the authorities about how their "church" is being terrorized by SPs, including non-existent threats of violence.
I just have a feeling, having said and done all that you have...if you center yourself in the peace of having cared and tried your best to keep her from harm, and just let go of the energy of the struggle, if she no longer has to put energy into defending against what you have shared with her, that her own inner voice of her higher self might start talking to her and she might just suddenly "wake up". All you have said and done, and what she has experienced and knows to be true for herself will suddenly snap into focus and she will think..."what am I doing?", and will create some change, take an opening, or ask for help. It happens like that for some people.
Good strong friendships really do impinge on us, even when we don't share the same viewpoint.
In any event, I do wish her well, and hope that you can be at peace with it as it plays out, however it goes...as I said, I DO understand your anger and frustration. Been there done that myself, with a very close and dear friend! I have done my share of grieving over the loss, believe me. I understand.
Maybe your next role in the next chapter of your friendship is to be there for her and be part of her support system for when she finally "gets it" and leaves the Cult. You can be there to help her pick up the pieces and restore her free life.
Eventually, everyone leaves Scientology.
In the meantime, God bless you!