http://www.forum.exscn.net/showthread.php?18822-Halp!!-I-m-addicted-to-ESMB!Ah yes, it was mostly fake ARC and betrayal, but as you say we belong in THIS group, the exes.
And I'm also here to bash Hubbard and rubbish his tech of course!
Why are the rest of you here?
Solo
Wow !
112 post in 5 years, that has got to be some sort of record !!!
This isn't an esoteric question about beingness, it's about ESMB. I come here and lurk sometimes and occasionally I post. I have been out of Scientology for 30 years, so I really should be free of all this. I'm a granny, I could be sitting in front of the fire with my cat asleep on the sofa and I could be knitting a blanket for the soon-to-be-born baby.
So why am I coming onto ESMB endlessly, reading and sometimes posting? Can it be that I am behaving obsessively, that I am unable to let go of the past?
You know, I think my time in the SO came at what should have been the peak of my life's activity, from age 20 to 30, and that could be true of many of us, as we were recruited when we were most likely to be looking for answers to the meaning of life, or disillusioned by society's failure to give us fulfilment.
Also, I recognise that one of the things the SO gave me was a massive group to belong to, and I have never got over the loss of that. I constantly look for news of people I knew back then. Even though I have many other friends from before and after Scientology, none of them share that overwhelming reality.
So. That's why I'm here, I'd like to be here if and when it all comes down, because I do hold Scientology responsible for the loss of some of the most important years of my life. And yes, I want to help anyone who is thinking of leaving, because they need our support.
But mostly I am here because my people are here. Whether I know you personally, or if you have long since forgotten me, I was just another little SO member, trying to get my stats up and find the meaning of life. We are all important, whatever happened to us and whatever we have done since Scientology.
Solo
This isn't an esoteric question about beingness, it's about ESMB. I come here and lurk sometimes and occasionally I post. I have been out of Scientology for 30 years, so I really should be free of all this. I'm a granny, I could be sitting in front of the fire with my cat asleep on the sofa and I could be knitting a blanket for the soon-to-be-born baby.
So why am I coming onto ESMB endlessly, reading and sometimes posting? Can it be that I am behaving obsessively, that I am unable to let go of the past?
You know, I think my time in the SO came at what should have been the peak of my life's activity, from age 20 to 30, and that could be true of many of us, as we were recruited when we were most likely to be looking for answers to the meaning of life, or disillusioned by society's failure to give us fulfilment.
Also, I recognise that one of the things the SO gave me was a massive group to belong to, and I have never got over the loss of that. I constantly look for news of people I knew back then. Even though I have many other friends from before and after Scientology, none of them share that overwhelming reality.
So. That's why I'm here, I'd like to be here if and when it all comes down, because I do hold Scientology responsible for the loss of some of the most important years of my life. And yes, I want to help anyone who is thinking of leaving, because they need our support.
But mostly I am here because my people are here. Whether I know you personally, or if you have long since forgotten me, I was just another little SO member, trying to get my stats up and find the meaning of life. We are all important, whatever happened to us and whatever we have done since Scientology.
Solo
That's a lovely post and no, I haven't forgotten you, how could I? Hope your doing well.
I keep thinking I won't come back, but I always do, maybe there's something to that Sea Org motto after all.
Love to you.
Sharone
This isn't an esoteric question about beingness, it's about ESMB. I come here and lurk sometimes and occasionally I post. I have been out of Scientology for 30 years, so I really should be free of all this. I'm a granny, I could be sitting in front of the fire with my cat asleep on the sofa and I could be knitting a blanket for the soon-to-be-born baby.
So why am I coming onto ESMB endlessly, reading and sometimes posting? Can it be that I am behaving obsessively, that I am unable to let go of the past?
You know, I think my time in the SO came at what should have been the peak of my life's activity, from age 20 to 30, and that could be true of many of us, as we were recruited when we were most likely to be looking for answers to the meaning of life, or disillusioned by society's failure to give us fulfilment.
Also, I recognise that one of the things the SO gave me was a massive group to belong to, and I have never got over the loss of that. I constantly look for news of people I knew back then. Even though I have many other friends from before and after Scientology, none of them share that overwhelming reality.
So. That's why I'm here, I'd like to be here if and when it all comes down, because I do hold Scientology responsible for the loss of some of the most important years of my life. And yes, I want to help anyone who is thinking of leaving, because they need our support.
But mostly I am here because my people are here. Whether I know you personally, or if you have long since forgotten me, I was just another little SO member, trying to get my stats up and find the meaning of life. We are all important, whatever happened to us and whatever we have done since Scientology.
Solo
lol, I do like that people wander off then return to check things out again, doesn't happen nearly often enough.
Always nice to hear how people are doing, and its not the quantity but the quality
sweetheart, the great american primitive painter known as grandma moses picked up her paintbrush at the age of seventy. to hell with CoS on the one hand but on the other the ideals attracted lively people and those of us here are lively yet. this place can and should perk you up
I'm still hoping that some of the great geniuses on this board (using also the research of those who have passed on) would put a system together that would benefit all of us and that it would proceed along a scientific line. In other words do the experiments (processes), organise the data , compare the results and confirm the effectiveness of potentially useful procedures by a qualified group of peers.
Why not split it up? You could have some genius(es) put the system together. And some others could do the formal testing and peer review. Since the whole point in science is to have experiments that can be replicated by anyone, long series of formal experiments with proper controls don't have to be done by the same person(s) who put the system together.
Paul
You know, I think my time in the SO came at what should have been the peak of my life's activity, from age 20 to 30, and that could be true of many of us, as we were recruited when we were most likely to be looking for answers to the meaning of life,
Solo
I think most people who are interesting try to find the meaning of life at some point. Of course there are people who never try this but they don't have much to say iMO.
So you spent your 10 years tying to find in in the SO. You could have been walking door to door getting people to read the bible.
Hopefully you did not sustain damage.
The one thing I learned from Scientology is that I don't really care if there is a meaning to life or not and that we are all meaning making machines.
You could have done it longer.
Wow !
112 post in 5 years, that has got to be some sort of record !!!
It has already been done by me. I have all the data now. All that you need to do is send me an initial payment of $1,000,000, sign the subscription and confidentiality agreements, and I will start you on your path to total spiritual freedom.snip... I'm still hoping that some of the great geniuses on this board (using also the research of those who have passed on) would put a system together that would benefit all of us and that it would proceed along a scientific line. In other words do the experiments (processes), organise the data , compare the results and confirm the effectiveness of potentially useful procedures by a qualified group of peers.
Hi Reasonable,
yes, I agree that people who are looking for answers are generally more interesting.
Unfortunately, before I got involved in Scientology I had been in an evangelical Christian church AND a small hippie religious group with a domineering "charismatic" leader. After Scientology, I thought, why do I never learn?
So I said very loudly I AM NEVER JOINING ANOTHER GROUP. EVER.
But I am still hoping to find the meaning of life one day. All by myself.
I didn't quite understand what you meant in your last paragraph, perhaps you could elaborate?
Solo