Enthetan
Master of Disaster
I want to tell her, that I'll be there for her, even in several years if she decides to join the "WOG" side... They should call us WOC with a C... like: "We own cookies"!
I cannot tell her, that there is going to be a new start for US, but I will not let her down! I have made a plan already if she makes the right choice. So I don't have to think what we are gonna do next but just stick to the plan and get her the hell out of there and make her life as peacefull as possible for the time they will chase her or do whatever. I don't exaclty know what they, the "OSA", is doing and looking for. I know the YouTube stories and so on, but that is not enough info to act against it.
It really doesen't matter when she is going to contact me... 2 weeks, 20 Years... at anytime and I am willing to help. How should I tell her this? Make her feel, that I mean it and not just say it to win her back right now!
I already have a secret location for her to stay... even a plan how to get her there without beeing followed.
If needed financial recources... not in cash off course... as I've learnd that they can use "love bombing", they can also play the "victim" to get the money.
Friends who will look out for her and "protect" her 24/7 so she wont miss the People from the Org... for now... I dont know if they are gonna be there in the future though.
So how should I tell her? By e-mail? Phone call? Letter? Personally? any other way of communication? What should i say/wirte? When should i tell her?
thanks,
Max
Either tell her personally when nobody else is around, or not at all.
I doubt if she will need somebody to help with a dramatic "escape". That generally only happens with Sea Org members, and more so if they held senior posts. I think the most she might need is a place to stay if the split from Scn results in her no longer being able to live with her parents.
You should move on, though. Find a (non-cult) girl who will love you unconditionally over ALL others, marry her, make some babies, have a life. Do not spend your best years pining for her.