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Yes I had heard that from others, but everyone was too scared to say because of backlash. And I was too scared to "criticise" or call it out.This is a very insightful and honorable post.
When I started posting on OCMB and then here on ESMB a certain "VIP" poster tried to help me learn how to post in the "correct" way by sending me flattering and "corrective" pm's. I've since learned they were equally generous in sharing time from their hectic schedule with other newbies.