I do understand why Suri would be frustrated & acted up. She's had cameras in her face from the day she was born. There's lots of speculation that it's Katie who actually calls the paps in the first place...so, hmmmm. I was just glad to see Suri wasn't on Katie's hip; she's a little too old for that at age 7.
I do believe that you can keep out of the limelight if you so choose. Note that while Angelina Jolie was going through her recent health issues, NO ONE had a peep of that story & certainly no photos of her coming & going from hospitals, etc. In fact she & Brad & their kids seem at times to go underground for months.
If I were "in" the cult & saw pictures of Tom Cruise with Suri I'd be royally pissed as that shows he does indeed get preferential treatment. Well I guess the cult can then say "see, there's no such thing as disconnection", right???