Master of Disaster
Phenomenon the qualities you attribute are the same ones that shine through in your posts, I pray with all my being that Hilda sends you that postcard one day soon. I am afraid we may are heading for the same situation with one of my step children (both parents were staff and mom joined SO after they divorced) Dad was never declared and has had custody all along but Mom is starting to make noise about the oldest joining the SO and they want to do it, we cant stop them once they are 18. Our fear is once they are in they will be forced to disconnect from us. I hate this god damn fucking cult.
How does dad feel about the kids joining the SO? If he's against it, sufficiently against it that he doesn't mind being declared for the sake of his kids' future, then he can stop it from happening.
It's all up to him.