Terril park
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Hi So Confused,
Being a romantic at heart I'd personally keep
trying to be with the girl I love. That may not be the wisest or
best plan for all situations and people but would be my plan.
I was 25 years in the Church until 1991 and am still an
independent scientologist.
I don't think it has to be a problem having a partner with
different beliefs. My wife is a very dedicated catholic and is
several times a week going to prayer meetings, church etc.
This causes no problems at all.
Now as an independent or Freezone scientologist I'm not subject
to the pressures that one would be subject to in CO$. Ironic,
they make one study how to "shatter suppression" and also
that scientologists have to watch out for those they call
suppressive persons. That would include anyone who is critical
of anything about Scientology or the organisation. That's most
of the known world! Its very possible that she has been worked
over on these points, and any communication that she knows
someone critical would be a red flag. She would also be under
pressure to donate money for the "War Chest".
So it would be wise to not be critical. This gives an opportunity
to those in CO$ to put pressure on her and they would be unlikely
to not do so. So just be there for her.
I'll give a real life example a guy got in touch with me and was
pissed off by being made to do multiple PTS/SP courses
[Potential Trouble Source which is connected to an SP Suppressive
person] The reason was he and his brother liked to watch football on
TV on saturdays, and his brother didn't like Scn.
Being a romantic at heart I'd personally keep
trying to be with the girl I love. That may not be the wisest or
best plan for all situations and people but would be my plan.
I was 25 years in the Church until 1991 and am still an
independent scientologist.
I don't think it has to be a problem having a partner with
different beliefs. My wife is a very dedicated catholic and is
several times a week going to prayer meetings, church etc.
This causes no problems at all.
Now as an independent or Freezone scientologist I'm not subject
to the pressures that one would be subject to in CO$. Ironic,
they make one study how to "shatter suppression" and also
that scientologists have to watch out for those they call
suppressive persons. That would include anyone who is critical
of anything about Scientology or the organisation. That's most
of the known world! Its very possible that she has been worked
over on these points, and any communication that she knows
someone critical would be a red flag. She would also be under
pressure to donate money for the "War Chest".
So it would be wise to not be critical. This gives an opportunity
to those in CO$ to put pressure on her and they would be unlikely
to not do so. So just be there for her.
I'll give a real life example a guy got in touch with me and was
pissed off by being made to do multiple PTS/SP courses
[Potential Trouble Source which is connected to an SP Suppressive
person] The reason was he and his brother liked to watch football on
TV on saturdays, and his brother didn't like Scn.
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