Not only does $cientology NOT handle psychological problems, it creates a great deal that weren't there before.
My poor husband knew nothing of Scientology when he met me, yet I was still displaying all of the false personality of a cultie.
We managed to stay together, partly because at my core I'm not that crazy, but mostly because of his patience.
Also, as the Internet has become such a rich resource of stories from other exes, I slowly started to unravel my brain, while also explaining to him what was happening.
For instance, you say your GF never apologizes. That is a pure Scientology trait. They are trained from the start to never admit to an outsider that they are wrong. It is a "show of weakness". Another big one is "always attack, never defend".
These sorts of screwed up beliefs are at the core of their fake power they think they have from the "tek".
Oh, and your poor girlfriend was brought up in it, without so much as the benefit of a public school. This is tragic.
I don't really have any advice, but unless you truly love her to the ends of the earth,I almost can't see this working out at all:/
Now that you have the advantage of so much information about this evil cult, you could try to see if she has any interest in recovery. If she did possibly the two of you could work through it.
But with her parents being prominent Scientologists, she would only have a couple of choices.
Live a lie.
Tell them she has realized its toxic and be forcibly disconnected from them as a result of church policy.
Thank you for the insight. I'd like to hear more from you if you have anything come to mind. I am adding some futher descriptions but I think I get he idea.