Something I thought of - a possible reason she dates "wogs" is because, if she hooks up with a scio, and he gets a session and it comes up - it will get spread around. The auditors her age read folders, gossip about the withholds that came up in session. They are not supposed to, but they do. And one wagging tongue is all it takes for her hookup to be common knowledge in her scio world. So, dating wogs circumvents that whole scene.I guess I wonder what my girlfriend expects from dating someone on the outside? Obviously we all have questions and struggle to undertand the attraction to SCI. She was of the mindset we could get married at one point knowing I'd never join. She even told me she never wanted me to join.