GreyLensman
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A couple of weeks ago I found out about some very odd Scientology things and I decided I didn't want to be with them anymore. You gave me tips and info. Thank you.
I still have a problem though... I can't leave. I keep going to course and etc and have even planned new dates because I was too shy to tell anyone that I wanted to quit. I actually ended up doing even more with the church these days...
Also, I like my org and the people. They're my friends and even thinking about leaving them in this way upsets me. Every day when I say goodbye I promise myself it will be the last time but I'm too weak to just "not go". This isn't good because I really don't feel comfortable with the church anymore.
Can anyone help me with this?
Drift away. Stop flowing any money (they just waste it anyway). Discover a present time problem after being late to course a couple of times in a row that demands you be off course of a short (or long) time.
Unless you are affluent and a big money target you can drift away, bit by bit. IF you are a source of substancial (that's all relative...) income, wither through assets or credit lines, you will have to be far more overt and decisive. As in telling them to fuck off and threatening them with police complaints if they persist in invading your space.
Being nice about communicating that you are leaving doesn't work - you'll be looking up words until you change your mind, or on your way to do your L's to solve your disaffection. Either silently drift away or be unsocial, unpolite and tell them to get the hell out of your life.
Sorry about your friends. Make more and different, less deluded ones.