Mike Wenlock said: "ah the retreat into "haters", how disappointingly predictable and I assume from your statement that you are one such 'indie" who has failed utterly to put the scientology cant behind him/her."
Palehorse responded: Uh ya, Mike, common slang is pretty predictable. UrbanDictionary.com gives the following definition of hater:
A person that simply cannot be happy for another person's success. So rather than be happy they make a point of exposing a flaw in that person.
It's a pretty harmless description. The prevalence of negative comments about Marty on this blog clearly shows a great deal of Marty Haters. Apparenty you took offense at that term. Why? It is not derogatory - it is simply descriptive. I understand why there are Marty Haters, and simply wanted to address those who feel that way. What makes it so disappointing to you?
I am a DM-hater. I could never be happy about any success he might have. Rather, I will happily expose his flaws and denigrate him to the best of my ability. Do you find that disappointing as well? Or would you prefer I flow ARC to DM when he states that his "church" has had some sort of "win?"
As far as my ex-scn status, what difference does it make? Do you purposely treat people differently based on whether they totally reject Scn or feel they had some gains or found some truth in the subject? If my status is so deeply important to you then here is my brief statement: I paid a fuckload of money (over a quarter-million dollars) for some moderately helpful gains. I am not convinced those gains were solely the result of my experiences in Scientology.
Now, do you feel better knowing that I have put Scientology behind me?
Mike Wenlock said: "How did you fare on Marty's blog when you pointed out that he himself is a 'hater?'Did you stand up for ESMB on his blog when he was busily "hating" on it? How did he respond to you? How did the others on the Blog repsond to your principled stand against "haters"? Or did you not make one? And only come here to use the term where it willl just be laughed off as part of the dreck that scientology imbues its followers with."
Palehorse responded: How are these questions relevent responses to my statements? If you have a disagreement with my post why not respond to what you find disagreeable? Instead, your questions are attacks on my credibility rather than genuine inquiries. You do not give a shit about my answers to your questions. Perhaps you still subscribe to LRH's instructions to "never defend" but rather, "attack." He would be proud of you.
Still, I will answer your insincere questions.
I received varied responses on Marty's blog when I defended Tony Ortega and those who utterly reject Scientology. I have not specifically cited ESMB as a decided ex/anti-Scn site because ESMB does not publically state such a stance.
Marty usually does not respond to my posts. I rarely recieve antagonistic responses to my posts on Marty's blog, although I have observed some pretty embarrassing behavior, as I have also observed (and responded to) here on ESMB. I have stated the same objections to Marty and to Indies as I have stated on this blog.
Apparently, Mike, you have decided that I have dedicated my loyalty to Marty and his followers. My loyalty is not reserved to Marty, nor to you or ESMB, nor to Tony Ortega, nor to the Cult, nor to anyone else but myself. All avenues have broadcasted important stances, and I align with those stances with which I agree and decry those I do not.
I speak only for myself.
My general point is that indies, exes and interested nons have more in common than not. We have a common goal in bringing down David Miscavige and eradicating the Church of Scientology. We also have our deep humanity and compassion in common. We even have a common goal with the Scilons, however general it may be: a world without war and insanity. THIS is an important part of my plea to all interested parties.
My plea, as described in my original post, is to recognize and acknowledge the humanity of others including all those inconvenient human frailties. Recognize, acknowledge, and forgive human fault and fallibility. Recognize our commonality. Once we are confident enough in our own commitment to our own stances, we will have no need to fear that respecting the stance of another will destroy our own reality.