In my life away from ESMB I am very tolerant of other people's beliefs. I've got friends and family from different cultures, with different religious beliefs, and from different political parties. We've never let that get in the way of relationships.
But here on ESMB which is (in part) a discussion forum about Scientology, it's different. This board cannot really serve any real purpose if we're not allowed to express our honest opinions about CoS, Scientology, and related subjects, or to comment on the opinions of others.
While many friendships have been made here on ESMB over the years, most people don't come here with that as their primary purpose.
Many come in an attempt to figure out WTF happened to them, or to understand the true nature of Scientology and the CoS, and to recover from the damage suffered by having gotten sucked into a cult. But if we refrain from being honest with each other out of fear of offending others I feel we're doing a disservice to each other, and to those lurking here.
If someone wishes to practice Scientology in their life and believe that Hubbard was the reincarnation of Buddha or whomever, people have a right to believe whatever they wish,
as long as they're not harming others.
What I
do take issue with though is when someone comes here to ESMB with an agenda to
promote Scientology as a positive thing and promote Hubbard as "mankind's greatest friend" or some other similar bullshit. Because that IS harmful to others, and can cause others to fall into a trap many of us got out of.
And if someone does such a thing on ESMB we can and should respond to it IMO.
The trick is to do it in a way which aligns with
a post from Ethercat and @Mick Wenlock from 6 years ago (both Admins at the time) which included this:
In heated arguments I've been guilty of violating that in the past, but try my best these days to adhere to it.
If someone says something I disagree with I might respond to it, but target the idea, not the one promoting it.
Many genuinely good-intentioned people have beliefs that are false and/or harmful. But attacking them
personally isn't going to lead them to any realization.
All that said, if someone newly out of the CoS comes here to ESMB, I'm not going to jump all over them, forcefully refuting their ideas they may have about Scientology. That would just overwhelm some people, causing them to leave. It can take years to remove the cult BS out of your head, and many newly out don't even realize yet that it's
in their head.