How closely does the church really track family relations? We have some family still in as both Sea Org and public, but we obviously aren't in CoS. They know that we are not part of the church, but we don't complain to them about the church. Will it eventually make it back to our family that we keep telling everyone that calls to take us off their lists, stop sending mail etc? How do they know who is related to whom? I've heard so many stories of family being told to disconnect and I'm a little nervous that eventually our family will be told to disconnect because we've repeatedly told the people that call to get lost (sometimes not so politely). How strong of a stance does someone need to take before this line is crossed?