I for one will be there to support whoever you are, wherever you are, along with all our fellow exes who feel the same way.
Thank you for being there ESMB... you have helped me gain the courage to finally begin to speak out. It has only taken me over 20 years... 20 years too long. x
Some strong and powerful words m'Lady, and thankyou for making the decision in the hope it helps just one other person.
If you need any help or need to talk, any person here I'm sure will do so at the drop of a hat.
And for all those still lurking and reading all these years, your story is just as valuable. In respect to any fear or worry you may still have there are many roads to take these days, it is 2011 not 1981 anymore