Frank "Skip" Benjamin

beltway

Bone Idle
Well he'd made a snap judgement on me that one day as a group of us walked home from the Midway Mall that I was an "SP" and later all my friends, led by his brother left me and made me their personal outcast. The third party they put out on me ruining my high school years was horrendous, only to find out years later some of them were having homosexual relations in the neighbors playhouse, well hidden out back on a hill overlooking a golf course in N. Central Ohio and were terrified of what I knew through failed recruitment from my then best friend Paul Durisek, now dead from the years of mental anguish and suffering he went through after a failed suicide attempt after a failed hetero marriage to a thieving $cilon bitch who stole a bundle from his parents for her OT-3 package. When I fled their group and wouldn't participate, one of the Davis neighbor's friends tried to physically stop my exit by grasping me by the hood of my sweatshirt but I was fast as greased lightening and broke free never ever to return. But it left me in a shell shocked state where I wanted to know what had just landed upon and crushed me. People were witnessing blowjobs some of them were giving down at the overflow spillway at Nacy's pond, just behind the neighborhood with the other bi/curious/gay kids from Eastern Heights who had months earlier caught me on the pond on a raft they claimed was theirs and circled the pond getting naked to swim out and rape me. Hell, that's what they were shouting that they were going to do, to say I felt a depth of terror Id never felt before that wouldn't let me go is an understatement. That was my intro to Scientology and the rest's history.
I got in because I need to see what had destroyed me, in a nutshell. Only to become further destroyed like some glutton for punishment out to show them that "you can't destroy me, I'll capture your power from your very grasp". Dum. dum. dum.
I saw it's evil ahead of time yet got in anyway because I had begun to covet that kind of power by way of having it used against me! Maybe it could put me back together again was my desperate clinging thought. It created someone else instead where I used to stand.

:ohmy::ohmy::ohmy::ohmy::ohmy:
 

Rmack

Van Allen Belt Sunbather
I think I'm finally out of denial about what rage is "appropriate" towards people who willfully ruined portions of one's life - key portions at that. Years I should have been back in college rather than chasing the delusions of a narcissistic, drug addled psychopath.

Dag, maybe this will help you feel better:

I too was very upset that this cult talked me out of going to any other school, and promising things much better. I guess I should preface by saying I only spent about 2 years actually working for the cult, and only days, really, as a public, I was still a sucker for the tech for about five years. I'm not sure how many years you spent, but I know I'd be even more mad if I wasted any more.

Then I read Bent's book, right when it first came out, and began the decompression process.

So, I've been Laffy-spell free for decades now. As I look back on those few young, naive years, I value them.

Let me explain; I consider this cult to be 'cult inoculation' in that when I came across anything similar, I was immune. Once you've been done by da masta, the next time a two-bit guru comes along claiming to have all the answers for a small donation of money or life, you just laugh.

I've even heard the old bastard chuckling to himself in ways that led me to believe he might have justified some of his abuses by thinking he was helping people be more free in an oblique way by enslaving them, all the while claiming to be delivering more self-determinism.

So, take heart! Poorer but wiser, we now can move beyond this trap.

Be careful, though. I know one ex that got snookered by an 'invention development' company, and lost several thousand dollars. Of course, he was computer illiterate at the time. It took me literally five minutes to find out what was really going on, and call this fool back to tell him he was being scammed, so I'm not worried about you.
 

Smurf

Gold Meritorious SP
Think this could be it? I'm just an hour or so south.
Frank Benjamin ,  68
**** Killie Ct Apt 102,
Dunedin, FL 34698-1326

That's your boy.. Frank Edwin Benjamin III now divorced from Victoria (Vicky) Lynn Benjamin (61). Vicky lives in Los Angeles.

http://www.myrelatives.com/d/FRANK-BENJAMIN/46525581

https://www.facebook.com/vickivictoria.benjamin

They have 2 daughters, Chandra Regina Benjamin who's in the Sea Org at Flag. She lives at Hacienda Gardens. Rhonda Benjamin-Hendrick lives in Orange County, CA. She has a daughter, Rachel.

https://www.facebook.com/ronda.hendrick
 

DagwoodGum

Squirreling Dervish
That's your boy.. Frank Edwin Benjamin III now divorced from Victoria (Vicky) Lynn Benjamin (61). Vicky lives in Los Angeles.

http://www.myrelatives.com/d/FRANK-BENJAMIN/46525581

https://www.facebook.com/vickivictoria.benjamin

They have 2 daughters, Chandra Regina Benjamin who's in the Sea Org at Flag. She lives at Hacienda Gardens. Rhonda Benjamin-Hendrick lives in Orange County, CA. She has a daughter, Rachel.

https://www.facebook.com/ronda.hendrick

I'm glad at least that the Rhonda daughter that I'd only known as a little girl seems to have turned out alright. Can't say about the other one, that she's in the sea org I guess says it all.
 

DagwoodGum

Squirreling Dervish
Dag, maybe this will help you feel better:

I too was very upset that this cult talked me out of going to any other school, and promising things much better. I guess I should preface by saying I only spent about 2 years actually working for the cult, and only days, really, as a public, I was still a sucker for the tech for about five years. I'm not sure how many years you spent, but I know I'd be even more mad if I wasted any more.

Then I read Bent's book, right when it first came out, and began the decompression process.

So, I've been Laffy-spell free for decades now. As I look back on those few young, naive years, I value them.

Let me explain; I consider this cult to be 'cult inoculation' in that when I came across anything similar, I was immune. Once you've been done by da masta, the next time a two-bit guru comes along claiming to have all the answers for a small donation of money or life, you just laugh.

I've even heard the old bastard chuckling to himself in ways that led me to believe he might have justified some of his abuses by thinking he was helping people be more free in an oblique way by enslaving them, all the while claiming to be delivering more self-determinism.

So, take heart! Poorer but wiser, we now can move beyond this trap.

Be careful, though. I know one ex that got snookered by an 'invention development' company, and lost several thousand dollars. Of course, he was computer illiterate at the time. It took me literally five minutes to find out what was really going on, and call this fool back to tell him he was being scammed, so I'm not worried about you.

Thanks man, you seem to be quite a good dude!:)
 

WildKat

Gold Meritorious Patron
That's your boy.. Frank Edwin Benjamin III now divorced from Victoria (Vicky) Lynn Benjamin (61). Vicky lives in Los Angeles.

http://www.myrelatives.com/d/FRANK-BENJAMIN/46525581

https://www.facebook.com/vickivictoria.benjamin

They have 2 daughters, Chandra Regina Benjamin who's in the Sea Org at Flag. She lives at Hacienda Gardens. Rhonda Benjamin-Hendrick lives in Orange County, CA. She has a daughter, Rachel.

https://www.facebook.com/ronda.hendrick

That's the one I knew...didn't know anyone called him by nickname Skip though.
 

Smurf

Gold Meritorious SP

Frank is still alive. So. it couldn't possibly be his new thetan. You can always call him & see what he's been up to. :)

https://phones.radaris.com/72773688#p40 or..

Frank Benjamin, Inc.
Frank Benjamin
Internet search engine optimization marketing consultant.
1340 Killie Ct., #102
Dunedin, FL 34698-1326
UNITED STATES
Tel. +1 727-736-8840
E-Mail: [email protected]

http://downloads.wikileaks-press.org/file/scientology-wise-members-2006.txt
 

DagwoodGum

Squirreling Dervish
That's the one I knew...didn't know anyone called him by nickname Skip though.

The family called him that, we assumed he'd carried the nickname forward but apparently not. The oldest daughter looks a whole lot like the grandparents on Skips side. The grandpa looked a little like Eddie Alpert, in fact his name was Ed. The grandmother was voluptuous and very high classed seeming. The great grandma had known Al Capone, her nickname was "Doo Doo" and prone to outbursts of rage towards Capone. She'd suddenly scream out "Capone, you son of a bitch" then run of and shit in the waste can thinking it was the toilet, assuming that was the reason for the nick name. The younger looks nothing at all like the Benjamin's. Well that's what divorces are for.....:biggrin:
 

Smurf

Gold Meritorious SP
The family called him that, we assumed he'd carried the nickname forward but apparently not. The oldest daughter looks a whole lot like the grandparents on Skips side. The grandpa looked a little like Eddie Alpert, in fact his name was Ed. The grandmother was voluptuous and very high classed seeming. The great grandma had known Al Capone, her nickname was "Doo Doo" and prone to outbursts of rage towards Capone. She'd suddenly scream out "Capone, you son of a bitch" then run of and shit in the waste can thinking it was the toilet, assuming that was the reason for the nick name. The younger looks nothing at all like the Benjamin's. Well that's what divorces are for.....:biggrin:

Actually, "Skip"'s name is Frank Edwin Benjamin III. His father, Frank Edwin was born October 1918 & his mother, Martha, was born Feb. 1920. He may have chosen to go by his middle name. There last residence was Elyria, Ohio.

His grandfather, Frank Edwin Benjamin I was born in 1894.

http://www.familytreenow.com/records/people/benjamin/frank/lcc4o0bxcrg0inkruvbi_w

http://www.familytreenow.com/records/people/benjamin/martha/z6jmzjtcoike3zijorst6q
 

DagwoodGum

Squirreling Dervish
After Elyria Ed & wife, I'd forgot her name, they had a home in that wealthy area just out of San Diego, possibly they moved back to Elyria again, don't know. Is this their house? Gawd, I still can see the molestation shack out back on the neighboring property. Never went back after I started hearing the stories...
http://www.homesnap.com/OH/Elyria/161-Canterbury-Road

Here is the pond, in fact, where I successfully fended of the perv boys from Eastern Heights who'd thought they were going to have their way with me when they caught me out in the middle of the pond on their raft. I told them the first one of them to lay a hand on me would be found on the pond bottom and I was swinging a mean canoe paddle! They backed off and then ran when Paul D. watching from a safe vantage point above on the hill yelled "Nacy's are coming". They scattered and I was able to paddle back to shore.
That town is Hell as far as I'm concerned.

http://www.homesnap.com/OH/Elyria/161-Canterbury-Road
 
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