"You're either with us or against us," is a destructive position to take, because it reinforces positions, and makes people less likely to concede that they may have been wrong, however untenable their position may be. Pride is an important factor, and scoring points off current Scientologists may be amusing but it doesn't help them to get free.
I try really hard to find common ground, every time I speak to somebody who's still 'in'. I talk about recipes, travel, things happening in the wider world, family... seldom anything about Hubbard. That just isn't productive.
I have tried to keep an open mind about LRH, but here's a funny thing: Ron himself didn't want me to do that.
"Never permit an 'open-minded' approach," he said in HCOPL of 7th February 1965... I'm sure you know that one; it's the "We'd rather have you dead than incapable" bulletin that praises the "fixed dedicated glare" that all good Scientologists should acquire.
Ron wanted his people to feel embattled, surrounded by enemies. This causes them to cluster together all the more willingly, and ignore the privations they face every day, because they are "at war." (This is the phoney war that caused Susan Meister to commit suicide...) The notion that critics of Scientology are thugs for whom everything a Scientologist does is automatically bad... is simply what LRH wanted people to think.
Despite his appeal to cull the open-minded from Scientology's ranks, on my side of the disagreement, I'll keep on being as open-minded as I possibly can. I study the public statements of the CofS with care... such as the Volunteer Minister reports or the recent photo of LRH's alleged war medals. I study what journalists write about about CofS, too. I study both sides - because I'm free to do so.
I am also open-minded enough to be interested in Scientologists substantiating their claims. Clear, stably exterior with full perception, OT, whatever: I'm sure a university department somewhere would be delighted to play host to a demonstration of Scientology 'Super Power'.
Hmm... not today? Ah well: that's CofS' problem, not mine.