So you wrote a letter to the RCC. So you rocked up to a priest and claimed the children she was raising were yours. WTF did you actually expect the priest to say to that? He answered you honestly. He knew she has children but did not know you had any.Jee-yay-ziss!!!
The mother of our sons and the old boyfriend she married met in parochial high school. I've been blockaded from my sons since 1980 and one of my attempts to break the blockade was an appeal to the RCC which was ended by a sneering priest saying "We know she has children. We don't know you have any"
I am successful in restraining myself from murder but it isn't easy.