Heute war ein guter Tag, er zwar langweilig aber gut..ob wohl ich woll immer noch zu sehr nachdenke...ich habe irgend wie das Gefühl als wenn sich mein leben nur in meinen Kopf abspielen...ich bin irgend wie total in mich gekärt...und das schon seit einer weile.
Ich mach mir immer wider einen Kopf was ich mit meinen Leben anfangen will, dann bekomme ich eine Ide was ich tuhn will aber das helt nie lange an weil ich nie durchhalte was zu ende zu bringen oder intensiv mich dadrum zu kümmern,
Ich habe leider auch keinnen der mir da aktiv in den Arsch tritt oder mich an die hand nimmt.
Das klingt ein wenig wie ein klein kind, was ich ja eigendlich nicht bin aber alleine schaff ich das nicht und von zuhause bekomm ich nicht so wirklich unterstützung.
so viel zu meinnen gedanken und wie es mir geht.
Und danke Nicole für deine Hilfe und deine gespräche, die Helfen mir
LG
Trinox
pls Translate
1st things 1st: "pls Translate" No. Call me an asshole, call me what you will, but just no. Why should I do your dirty work *and* do you a disservice while doing it? It was you who said you lived in England for a while. It was you who said you want to go back to England because Germany and us Germans are so mean.
Seriously dude, DYODW. Do I need to spell it out? Do Your Own Dirty Work. Pls translate that, if you need to.
Next thing. Did you fix your issues with thew Job Center by now, or do you really think hopping on mommy's lap and letting *her* find a job for you would solve that? It wouldn't, and you know that.
The Job Center training courses may not be all fun and games, but they *do* teach you how to get a job, how to keep a job, and how to do a job. Yes, that *is* a little less convenient than sitting at home and thinking about how bad your situation is; but it does a lot of good stuff for you.
1. It gets you out of your cushy home.
2. It gets you in contact with people who are in the exact same situation that you are in.
3. It teaches you how to get out of that situation and into a better one.
4. It teaches you basic employee skills - showing up on time, and doing properly whatever your boss says.
5. It's not mandatory, but very likely that they even teach you how to deal with some of the assholes that you can find almost anywhere in this world.
6. They do have special courses where you can find out where your best job opportunities are.
Sitting at home, thinking about what to do with your life, may feel comfortable, but circular thinking, which it probably is, won't get you anywhere. Get out and get your stuff done. You'll see, you'll feel better doing that.
Once you do have a job, make sure you do it properly, no matter what the job is. Do it so that you can be proud of your work. Cleaning toilets, copying papers, grinding metal, laquering machines, whatever it is, when you've done it properly, to the best of your knowledge and as best as you can, that'll give you a sense of pride that you'll never be able to experience on mummy's lap.
tl;dr:
It's time to grow up, kiddo.
, MrN
ps. Oh, and consider your ass kicked.