dexter gelfand
Patron Meritorious
Try to express a viewpoint without taking one sometime.
I don't understand, Nex- how do you express a viewpoint without first having a viewpoint?
Love, Dex
Try to express a viewpoint without taking one sometime.
Generally a useful viewpoint is one that takes a stand. Since every viewpoint shares the dual nature of being both accurate and incomplete the only really worthless post is one that fudges into multiple viewpoints, likely in an attempt by the poster not be wrong or to manipulate instead of understand.
Ron would probably say, "You're guilty of doing that which you accuse others of doing!"That would apply to me and also apply to you but, hell, who cares what Ron would say?
Yah, I do love debate. It's fun.
I think that if one goes to a forum wherein the main stance is kinda opposite, that one can and should expect counter arguments and debates. Not attacks, though.
Good answer.As far as suspending disbelief about me spending a lot of money on something I want, you needn't. Obviously, I did in fact spend a whole lot of money & time passionately trying to achieve Ron's promised states/abilities. And your assumption that I would not make such a Quixotic attempt again is also correct. For reasons that are more than obvious. What you expressed is what Ron should have expressed....that the subject of Scientology is experimental. A pure R&D undertaking that, while it might anecdotally be capable of achieving certain effects, is entirely hypothetical or, at best, only produces subjective results which vary individual to individual with wild variation. If Hubbard had invited all to participate in this grand experiment, it might have been like Wikipedia--contributed to by a vast number of practitioners, researchers, innovators and spiritual pioneers. I once posted about this and conceived of a subject that could have perhaps had (minimally) three categories of technology. Briefly it was along these lines...CATEGORY I) PROVEN. That which can be scientifically proven, duplicated and which produces quantifiable results using all the protocols of the scientific testing methods--double blind studies, placebos et al. CATEGORY II) PILOT. All practitioners and pcs, alike, would know full well that they were participating in an process or rundown that had qualified itself as having clinical promise. No one would be deluded or tricked into believing that it was other than a good-faith attempt to see if it might work. CATEGORY III) PURE R & D. Here, any theory or predicate, bar none, could be undertaken without limitations. If any technique appeared to have merit and pass certain standards, it could be elevated to a Category II or Pilot phase.If Hubbard had administered Scientology with the honesty and humility that you describe is your process, there may have been real and remarkable progress in the subject. No telling what discoveries might have resulted with such an embracive and open approach. However, Hubbard took all of his "Pure R & D" and instantly elevated it to Category I ("Proven") and thereafter attached untold number of additional support baggage by calling it a religion, naming himself as the "being from another planet" who "rose above the bank" and became the "only individual to ever pass thru OT III" without being killed. Add to that all the outrageous totalitarian instruments of threat and punishment that were brutally dealt out to anyone who dared question his methods and a complex monstrosity was borne. I have been deeply involved, in one of my enterprises, with R & D of a medical and scientific nature and I have untold respect for anyone who earnestly sets out to discover tools by which peoples' lives can be bettered. So, despite what you might think about my Joking & Degrading or other edgy posts, I do respect your efforts to pursue and develop any techniques which people find useful in their lives.
Re deciding what's a useful viewpoint vs one that is not: I think that one man's meat may be another man's poison.
Not at all. Although those prone to factionalism often seek to impose such a dichotomous view.
The best posts are those which expand & clarify the topic under discussion without regard or attempt to promoting a particular perspective or opinion of the ideas being expressed upon others.
Mark A. Baker
Hi Dexter - did you see my post #348?
If you understand what I wrote in response to your post it may save you some heartache.
I think you are a good bloke, it's just that sometimes there are parts of scio that we don't realise we practice, such as needing a "safe space" to state an opinion, or perhaps trying to restrict comments to those that agree. There are many points of view here that are worth looking at, sometimes just a little shift to the left or right can bring new insights. HH, DB and Veda have said some truly brilliant things on this board and even if it is disturbing sometimes, their comments are worth the while to read. It's not personal.
I don't understand, Nex- how do you express a viewpoint without first having a viewpoint?
Love, Dex
Fair enough, here's a definition of a useful viewpoint with regard to understanding:
A place from where one can be seen, a definite point in space.




One need only watch the videos of the recent Freezone conference, where an OT3 completion is announced, resulting in an eruption of cheers and applause by the attendees, to recognize that the LRH Bridge is primarily what the Scientology Freezone does.
I'll take Dexter at his word that he's no longer trapped on the LRH Bridge, but the fact is, despite recurring denials, mostly by ScnFZ/ScnIndie PR people, and directed at the "public" of ESMB, doing the LRH Bridge is what the ScnFZ/IndieScn is primarily about. And that's fine, since that's the primary reason for the Scientology Freezone/Independent Scientology in the first place: to provide Standard Scientology, in other words, the LRH Bridge, to those who wish to do the LRH Bridge outside of organized $cientology.
Once the cherry picking starts, and the LRH Bridge is abandoned, continuing to call it Scientology is misleading, and it adds to the already smoke-and-mirrors aspect of the doctrine of Scientology, which has been advertising itself for years as anything that the potential customer, potential recruit, newbie or "raw meat," might find appealing and attractive.
In other words, Scientology - for years - has been telling people that Scientology is whatever it is they most want it to be at that particular moment. This, in an attempt to deceive, manipulate, mislead, and exploit the person, his energies, good intentions, and his treasure.
So it's a muddled mess.
Dexter seems to be (slowly) renouncing the LRH Bridge, yet he still plans to do the confidential upper levels, and it remains to be seen if he will succumb to the catharsis-lubricated/hypno-mind manipulation/e-meter-dependence-fetishism of (most of) those levels. If he does fall prey to the magical mystery bus tour along the "upper" LRH Bridge, then he'll be back on the LRH Bridge (and back in the LRH bus) for an indefinite period.
However, unlike many of his ScnFZ/ScnIndie associates, he is learning (while still being typically Scientologically offended by those who happen to faster learners than he.)![]()
So, I wish him well, and look forward to his eventual graduation from Scientology.
Hi Free!I DO understand. What I disagree with is thoughtless knee-jerk ranting, which is pretty much all I see coming from Degraded being and Blip. There just isn't any point in responding to them, or in any way carrying forward their communications. Others' such as Veda, Helluva Hoax, and Free Being, may not agree with my viewpoint, but they are demonstrating that they are here to exchange viewpoints, and both arrive at and bring about understanding between us. We can actually learn from and appreciate each other. There's a difference, wouldn't you agree?
Love, Dex

Oh shit, I am no longer a radical, underground, subversive protester and have been accepted into society! Dammmmm, I better step up my game and start offending some people asap!![]()
Degraded Being,
I saw an earlier post where your reply to me ended with "I don't love you"- Are you breaking up with me?
Love, Dex

Hi Free!I DO understand. What I disagree with is thoughtless knee-jerk ranting, which is pretty much all I see coming from Degraded being and Blip. There just isn't any point in responding to them, or in any way carrying forward their communications. Others' such as Veda, Helluva Hoax, and Free Being, may not agree with my viewpoint, but they are demonstrating that they are here to exchange viewpoints, and both arrive at and bring about understanding between us. We can actually learn from and appreciate each other. There's a difference, wouldn't you agree?
Love, Dex
Degraded Being,
I saw an earlier post where your reply to me ended with "I don't love you"- Are you breaking up with me?
Love, Dex
Why do I have to make all the decisions? I thought you broke up with me in your last response to me anyway. I thought that was quite masterful. Now you disappoint me with this limp wristed seduction attempt.
Have you ever read Heinlein? I'm reminded of a quote in the Moon Is A Harsh Mistress: If possible, leave room for your enemies to become your friends. Maybe a corrected future $ci will take out the abuses and weaknesses, taking a philosophical route of practicality than an authoritarian testament to pride and control. Who knows?