Originally Posted by Cherished View Post
Magnolia, obviously they read this thread and knew to expect you.
That may be the case -- their treatment did seem very harsh.
But it seems strange, that if they knew this experience would be posted on the Internet that they wouldn't try to be friendly and welcoming. . . .and prove us all wrong; make us look like hysterical idiots. Instead they fed right into our expectations.
I still think they are losing it.
So a little while ago MY dtr called me to tell me that the Scientologist will be calling me to make amends and apologize for the way they treated me.
They admit they created a PR mistake. Ya think?

My SIL and DTR are extremely upset.. (but they have not left the place)
They called Dave Candle up to their room this morning.. Seems Dave is staying with Elvira.. oh puhleeze... why would anyone want to sleep with someone that butt fugly... shudders with that kind of hideous black aura and negative attitude.
In Any case SIL says he and his wife confronted Dave about the whole incident and Dave admitted I did not make a scene until I was on the street when Elvira still refused to answer my questions.. I do admit as we went down the stairs to the entrance with the suits following behind.. that I asked her, "WHO the heck is Lisa McPherson, I was asked to ask you that?" (of course I know exactly who she is and the newspapers dont tell the half of it.. I was living in St. Pete when it happened and knew ER nurses at the hosp she ended up at.... Elvira stiffened and almost stumbled on the steps.
My SIL has made a big deal out of this... and yet when put Dave on the phone and made him give me an apology..it was cursory at best.. there was NO sincerity in the apology. Now Dave wants to "come visit me and made amends" At the moment there is nothing he can do to change my mind nor is there anything he can do that will make it right. Right would have been to never have happened.
Those people never counted on a woman who can think for herself. People have always underestimated me.
Dtr refused to let anyone but me babysit her kids.. I knew that would happen. She has a major control issue and to let anyone but me would simply not happen. I am starting to think this wont be as easy a sell with them as I feared. then again...... she did accept a babysitter.. man they must have a good pitch...
Dave did comment that he was dismayed that My mother would chose to not make dtr the exectrix of the family trust... that will never happen....
Mom checked her paperwork this morning on the house loan she made the dtr... yep, there IS a lien on the ho use and that have basically NO equity for a second mortgage.
laters...I am going for a long walk. I do this everyday..but now I need to get away and then comeback to do my job. I cannot think about ferreting out cybercreeps when I am so upset... and it takes a lot of ferreting...
Someone said that I should be more careful about my info out there... now who is to say that I told the truth about MY income or anything else... I might just have more money that I said, and more affiliations than you lurkers know.
Elvira was instructed to apologize to me.. I doubt that will ever happen and she owes me the cost of my supper. My dtr should not feel obligated to pay for it either..