Here's a long video by Steve Hassan on recovering from cult mind control.
Steve is a brilliant guy that has made cult recovery into a passion.
Hes an ex moonie and all round wonderful person.
http://youtu.be/sw-oF-Z_I7U
I hear you, about wanting to ask others about decisions! One of the most pernicious parts of leaving a cult is usually a person is so immersed in that network that when they leave they have not so much as a friend on the outside.
What woman doesn't absolutely need a good girlfriend to bounce ideas off and help to wade through decisions. It's a lot of help!
When I left Scientology, I was completely unmoored for years, having lost literally everything.
But now at least we have the Internet and other people in the same boat. It's so helpful.
Anyway, enjoy the video, it's longish so make some popcorn