Why It’s Smart to Let Toxic People Have the Last Word
"It’s tempting to think that getting the last word with a toxic person is worth pursuing, but there’s one thing that’s even better…
In the simplest of terms, there’s nothing toxic people like more than:
1. Getting their way, or;
2. Causing a fight.
Toxic people like to accuse, tantrum, manipulate and smear their way to either one of the above or the other. Their out-of-control emotions and self-centeredness make the blame game and the smear campaign two of their favorite tactics for keeping you engaged with them so they can feed off you.
Upset a toxic person, and they’ll be shooting infuriating drama-baits your way and just waiting for you to bite the hook. And they know just what to say to keep you tossing and turning at night, just trying to think of some way – any way – that you can stop them once and for all and make sure the truth about who you are prevails. But if you’re wise, you won’t bother .... (snipped for brevity)
So when you find yourself invited into an ugly tug-of-war with a toxic person, simply drop the rope immediately, walk away and LEAVE IT BE FOREVER. Because the simple fact of the matter is, toxic people can’t have a tug-of-war with you if there’s nobody holding on at the other end."
Both of you (and Claire with her likes) can have the last word, it's all yours.
o i don't mind your virulent and vehement venomous vitriol FBM. i glad to see you jump in; it shows persistence, truly a virtue and you likely have others unseen. it's wise to choose me for an ugly tug-of-war as i am well trained and and long experienced "disenturbulating theta" as the materials would have it
auditing and auditor training are very good and great things and the truth of them and those who know their truths will surely prevail (though sadly at the moment it appears they desperately need to prevail against tyranny and darkness nowhere so much as in Co$$$)
withdraw if you wish FBM, you are always welcome back