I really don't think you understand what these things are like. Many people who end up taking their lives are struggling for years and years and years with these conditions, and yet somehow, barely are able to pick themselves up - again - to try one more time. At some point they just can't do it anymore. scientology is false hope for what could be a terminal patient. Whether that false hope speeds up their demise or actually delays it is anybody's guess. But it should be removed from society because it is false - aka a lie.
That is pretty troubling but typical with this cult. Quack/snake oil treatments to serious problems. But I think people need to keep in mind that there are people who don't respond to medical treatment so no one can assume if she had reached out to "proper" treatment she would have lived happily ever after. Depression is a motherfucker.
Knowing what I know I doubt seriously culties had anything directly to do with her death or went anywhere near her home afterwards. That's a pretty populated area in Sherman Oaks and people no doubt would have been watching what was going on there as would happen when somebody famous dies.
What wouldn't surprise me though would be if she was maybe "high on the lie" after her "therapy" and thought everything was going to go great, and that she could beat her depression. And perhaps even had conversations with Jim about how great the cult really was and that he should maybe reconsider his stance on it because it had the power to cure mental illness and save the world and all that bullshit. Maybe even enough to get him to think "this just isn't gonna work out" and when he dumped her she crashed hard.
That I could see as plausible.
Actually, I do understand - better than you think I do.
But you've described the situation much better than anyone else. I've been rolling your comment around in the back of my mind all day. It was very insightful.
Thrak, I think giving someone who suffers from depression hope is a good thing. False hope, of course is not. It is the hope that keeps someone like that going - hope that it will end, hope for a remedy or a cure, hope for a happier life.
Many actually do find that remedy. Some with medications, some with activities, some with love or a social life or maybe all of that.
IMHO, the biggest crime with Scientology's claims to cure someone with depression isn't the false hope, it is the way it is ingrained in a person's mind that it is the ONLY hope. If someone is convinced it is the only solution and then also realizes it doesn't work for them and hasn't solved the problem, and then is BLAMED for it not working, that's enough to trigger a suicide. Why bother trying anymore, if that was the only solution and they blew it.
It is the cruelest con, the most vicious of all activities to falsely claim a cure and BLOCK OFF ALL OTHER IDEAS OR CONCEPT OF CURES, and then blame the person when it doesn't work. No more looking for cures after Scn. This is the one that worked, and she messed it up... but she didn't. The cruelty of the con is beyond belief.
Psychiatry is not entirely hit or miss with depression. Anti-depressants actually do raise a depressed person's general feelings about self. It's just not the whole picture. Still, it's a good, stable base with which to build. It just takes a lot else besides - counseling, social, spiritual - an entire holistic approach and commitment to working very hard to resolve the depression.
It's not that anti-depressants would have necessarily saved her, but outside of Scientology, people take suicidal risk very seriously. Nobody plays around with it. It's not some joke to sell a book or an expensive quack health remedy in a sauna. Life is precious. Every single person's life matters. REAL doctors who deal with depression don't do vitamin IV drips. And they follow up, ensuring first and foremost that the person is not at risk and has a friend or someone else to call or contact if things ever get too tough.
Outside of Scientology, people actually care and take their jobs and mental health seriously and consider people's lives valuable.