Listed among our basic Knowledgism processes is that wonderful old R/D for restoring to you , the client, your basic powers, abilities, awarenesses, knowledge and all such things that you want to exercise or deal with is: RESPONSIBILITY.
The commands/questions are pretty simple and basic.
You can use: "Connected to (area of life, existence, ability, power, subject or item) . . ." Or alternatively use: "What part of (area of life, existence, ability, power, subject or item) . . ."
Then, added to the above is: ". . . are you willing to be responsible for" and ". . . would you rather not be responsible for?"
The above is the workhorse for handling one's relationship for regular folks. It restores willingness and ability to cause!
On a very advanced case where you would be upgrading responsibility and power on an omni-awareness, omni-presence, co-empowerment level, you could use the command that would directly process the omni-aware, omni-powerful Being. It would go something like this: "As an omni-aware Presence (or Being or such) connected to (item) what omni-responsibility are you willing to exercise or implement?" / ". . . rather not exercise or implement?"
For folks not familiar with the term "OMNI" here is the simple definition and usage:
omni-
combining form
1. all; of all things. "omniscient"
2. in all ways or places. "omnicompetent"
But most folks are nowhere near processing at an omni-responsibility level. They are operating as isolated Beings having troubles with all about them and BLAMING all about them for their troubles.
Hubbard did this. You folks who are aware of the upper "OT Levels" know that Hubbard was into blaming all those nasty "body thetans" (BTs) for his condition. And information we have from those closest to him in his final years tells that that even then, he was still blaming his BTs for his condition.
In actuality, any practice that tells you that your unwanted conditions or behaviors can be blamed elsewhere than with you and your own powers of choice, cause and sovereignty, is selling you a booby-trap.
YOU are ultimately responsible for your condition of existence and behavior.
To place responsibility for such elsewhere; such as with "BTs" or "Entities" or parents or other influencers is to be, in actuality, sabotaging you and your true powers, abilities and responsibility. Don't buy it, it's a trap. It dishonors and undoes your truth, powers and ability.
You will see this truth exemplified in Knowledgism's wonderful CAUSATIVE PROCESSING.
These are the first words in this R/D.
VITAL DATA -- ALL PROCESSORS
LAW: WHAT THE CLIENT IS REACTING TO (complaining or moaning about, or being critical of, the victim or effect of), IS WHAT THE CLIENT IS SECRETLY, COMPULSIVELY DOING HIMSELF.
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