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It used to be common in the military branches to refer female officer as "sir", regardless of gender. Today, some female military officers prefer "sir" over "ma'am" because women feel "ma'am" is commonly used to refer to old women. I had an African-American officer like that in the Army.. she cringed when subordinates called her "ma'am," believing it to be an artifact of the old South.
The idea is that the gender of the superior officer shouldn't be considered at all, all you need to know is that they are your superior.
Ever watch the 'Star Trek" (TV & movies) and 'Battledstar:Gallactica"? The female officers were referred to as "sir".
I would accept "ma'am" - British or American pronunciation. Extra reverence, with "Your Majesty" would not incur demerit points.



