Purple Rain
Crusader
1. You've used and kindly shared here your definition of the word 'abandonment' above. Using your definition, no reasonable person could disagree with what you write immediately thereafter.
2. If you're asking me specifically re: Nicole Kidman v Bauer...I'm happy to answer. The magazines/newspapers/MSM/bloggers/etc did write that Ms. Kidman had abandoned those children -- and after a period of time passed, they chose the word 'estranged' instead.
My answer is exactly the same for TC & NK: In court, she'd have to prove defamation/false light to a legal standard; in the media, she'd have the right to fight such an allegation in a myriad of ways/methods. She chose not to go to court, but she has employed a number of different media-centric tactics that have worked to her own satisfaction. (Not mine, since I'd very much like her to confirm or deny whether the Co$ disconnection + 'fair game' policies were employed in her post-divorce situation.)
Tom Cruise chose to go to court...and his media-centric tactics may/may not yet meet his own expectations.
I've never addressed your personal situation/experience in any of the posts on this thread, nor will I.
I have sought to save folks a few steps of effort by providing internet-obtained generalized legal information, and am glad it helps to inform/educate, and nothing more.
JB
Well, what you do really does help immensely, and in this thread also. I'm really not going to comment further on the Tom Cruise case, but it will be interesting to watch it all play out. Nicole has successfully sued magazines before, and may well have again if they hadn't dropped the 'abandoned' tags. We'll never know. Anyhow, I will see you on the Leah thread, JB, and the rest of the board.