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Living on "the Dark Side"

Sindy

Crusader
After reading Jeff's new blog post:

http://leavingscientology.wordpress.com/2010/12/08/the-dark-side/

"It has become a favorite phrase within the Church of Scientology to say that someone has “gone over to the dark side” when they leave the Church. I recently heard a story about someone who was told that they could not talk to a friend of theirs as they had “gone over to the dark side.” The person asked what they had done, but the Ethics Officer couldn’t say. “That’s confidential,” he said, “All I can tell you is that he’s gone over to the dark side.”

There are several definitions of the word dark. One definition is “evil or wicked.” But another definition is “hidden or obscured.”

Imagine Scientology as a building with all of the windows blacked out so no one can see outside. Those who are inside are told that what is outside the building is evil. They are not allowed to talk to anyone outside the building. They cannot read anything from the outside world. If their friends or family are outside, then they are not allowed to talk to them. You can imagine them sitting in this building, staring at the blacked-out windows, and wondering what is on the other side – the “dark side.”

This metaphor isn’t that far-fetched by the way. I recall attending a demonstration at the local Scientology Org. People were holding signs, playing music and singing. The Org reacted by putting up black curtains all across the front of the building so that their staff and public could not see what was going on.

Amazingly, when they do get up the courage to walk out of that building, they discover not darkness, but light – a whole big world of people and buildings and parks and vast wilderness. A bright world of freedom where people can talk to anyone they want to, read anything they want to, and think anything they want. Or go to a movie or take a walk or go on a vacation or read a book.

And if anyone notices that little building with the blacked-out windows, they just say “what a curious little building. I wonder why all the windows are blacked out?”

So who’s on the dark side?"
End of article.

I got to thinking about all the things that make me feel more FREE being on the supposed "dark side"

In the mental realm:

Feeling okay about having love and compassion for anyone I choose including the "less able" (handicapped, victims of illness, etc.)

In the physical realm:

The numerous (NOT out-ethics) things I can do without going through mental convulsions as to how I am going to communicate about it the next day, like having a beer or two.

In the spiritual realm:

I now feel free to explore all paths. This is extraordinarily freeing.


How can there be so much darkness (and there's A LOT of darkness in the church...A LOT). How can the existing members be so surrounded with such darkness and not want to RUN to the light? Aren't one's perceptions supposed to be getting honed to a fine crafted ability? Can't they persceive the darkness inside? Hey, maybe that's the reason LRH said to "stay away from the light":omg:
 

Miss Pert

Silver Meritorious Patron
I got to thinking about all the things that make me feel more FREE being on the supposed "dark side"

In the mental realm:

Feeling okay about having love and compassion for anyone I choose including the "less able" (handicapped, victims of illness, etc.)

In the physical realm:

The numerous (NOT out-ethics) things I can do without going through mental convulsions as to how I am going to communicate about it the next day, like having a beer or two.

In the spiritual realm:

I now feel free to explore all paths. This is extraordinarily freeing.


How can there be so much darkness (and there's A LOT of darkness in the church...A LOT). How can the existing members be so surrounded with such darkness and not want to RUN to the light? Aren't one's perceptions supposed to be getting honed to a fine crafted ability? Can't they persceive the darkness inside? Hey, maybe that's the reason LRH said to "stay away from the light":omg:

There's nothing that's as much fun as living on the "dark side" and I am enjoying exactly the same freedoms you have mentioned. :happydance: :happydance: :happydance:
 

AnonyMary

Formerly Fooled - Finally Free
Great post, Synthia! Jeff's blog is an inspiration for us all :)

The 'dark side' that Scientology does not want it's members to step over into is where real freedom can be had. This is where the the real power of choice to say, think, do or be exists. One notices it immediately when deciding to act on one's own determinism. The light shines through just at the thought that one has a freedome that was not there before. Certain points in the scientology Code of Honor which have been held in abeyance can now be experienced or acted upon because of free choice. Wogs become human beings worthly of consideration instead of fixed ideas that block out communication and helping others becomes a choice out of desire, not by force.

It's that moment when one sees that the “Only Thing We Have to Fear Is Fear Itself” ( FDR ) and that that fear was never something we really owned. It was thrust upon us to keep us controlled.

Like Tory says, the Truman Show effect vanishes. Some dark side, heh? lol
 

VaD

Gold Meritorious Patron
Just posted to Jeff:

“A bright world of freedom where people can talk to anyone they want to, read anything they want to, and think anything they want”. – That, of course, means that they will lurk, read, think and then talk about the dark side of Scientology (which is both “evil or wicked” AND “hidden or obscured.”
LOL!
If not, they will still see the dark side everywhere (while it’s only in their head).
 

Sindy

Crusader
Just posted to Jeff:

“A bright world of freedom where people can talk to anyone they want to, read anything they want to, and think anything they want”. – That, of course, means that they will lurk, read, think and then talk about the dark side of Scientology (which is both “evil or wicked” AND “hidden or obscured.”
LOL!


If not, they will still see the dark side everywhere (while it’s only in their head).

:thumbsup: Nice :)
 

Dulloldfart

Squirrel Extraordinaire
I first heard the term in relation to the movie "Star Wars". I often used the term years ago jocularly referring to myself being in the FZ (throws salt over shoulder) and not the cult. I didn't realize the cult had now adopted the phrase (I assume not from me!).

Paul
 

Good twin

Floater
I first heard the term in relation to the movie "Star Wars". I often used the term years ago jocularly referring to myself being in the FZ (throws salt over shoulder) and not the cult. I didn't realize the cult had now adopted the phrase (I assume not from me!).

Paul

You shouldn't assume Paul. It very well could have been you who put this spell on the cult. (the force is strong in this one) :yes:
 

Arthur Dent

Silver Meritorious Patron
Just before dark.
"Dark Shadows" :)
A Darker Shade of Pale
Don't darken my doorstep...
Tall, dark and handsome
In the dark...
Dark chocolate!
How dark the night
And remember that you can only see stars when the sky is dark!

I'm stickin' to the dark side!
 

Sindy

Crusader
Great post, Synthia! Jeff's blog is an inspiration for us all :)

The 'dark side' that Scientology does not want it's members to step over into is where real freedom can be had. This is where the the real power of choice to say, think, do or be exists. One notices it immediately when deciding to act on one's own determinism. The light shines through just at the thought that one has a freedome that was not there before. Certain points in the scientology Code of Honor which have been held in abeyance can now be experienced or acted upon because of free choice. Wogs become human beings worthly of consideration instead of fixed ideas that block out communication and helping others becomes a choice out of desire, not by force.

It's that moment when one sees that the “Only Thing We Have to Fear Is Fear Itself” ( FDR ) and that that fear was never something we really owned. It was thrust upon us to keep us controlled.

Like Tory says, the Truman Show effect vanishes. Some dark side, heh? lol

Yes, I realize that part of my own mental trap (and I suspect it is this way with others) is that the words and the ideals of Scientology carried more weight than what I actually observed. It's the biggest mindf#@k ever because you know, in the back of your head, that "what's true for you is true for you."

You are trained to "obnose", to see exactly and only what is there. Ridiculous. It's like a cruel sadistic joke that while you're in the academy training, absorbing the scriptures, the management, staff, and public as a whole are doing not just different, but completely opposite activities while saying and believing they are doing what it says in the books. It's the weirdest thing. NO ONE sees and then says exactly what is going on. They stay firmly in the hive while all the while thinking they are the most free beings on the planet. Talk about mind control.

It's like joining the Arctic Ice Brigade. You learn about the cold and how to deal with it, to dress for it, etc. Then, they take you out in the desert and tell you how cold it is while your sweating your ass off. You know you should be feeling cold, I mean you joined the Arctic Ice Brigade for goodness sake!

I vow to NEVER fall for something like this ever again. I feel much smarter now.

Thanks to everyone on this board! Really. Very much thanks.
 

Feral

Rogue male
Priceless.

An utterly perfect description.

I think the balance of power may have fatally and permanently changed when DM blew Jeff off.
 
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