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Mary Tabayoyon RIP

Discussion in 'In Memory Of...' started by Karen#1, Jul 27, 2016.

  1. Karen#1

    Karen#1 Gold Meritorious Patron

    I am sorry to report the death of Mary Tabayoyin.

    Mary died from a short but tough battle with cancer on 19th July. Her husband of over 40 years Andre Tabayoyin messaged me.
    They both served in the Sea org in Los Angeles and then for years Gold Base/Int Base for 20 years and left all of Scientology behind in 1992.
    So what happened?

    Mary became pregnant. She was given a choice. Have the baby and leave the Sea Org for a Class IV Org or have an abortion and stay. Now let's not forget, this choice was given to someone who had proven their loyalty for more than 20 years. She was under much pressure to have the abortion in order to stay in the SO. In the end, she had the abortion. After the fact, neither she nor Andre could live with, nor justify, that act. It went against their own private moral code.

    Mary and Andre made the decision to leave the church and Int Base. Immediately there was almost a kidnap of their son to sever all connection with them while he was used for slave labor in the Sea org. Their son Casavius was made to disconnect. as punishment for them departing the CULT.

    When they left in 1992, the CULT vengefully hid their son going as far as sending him to Sweden or Denmark so that he was 1000's of miles away from them. Scientology 101 vengeance.

    Mary and Andre cried out for their son on the web, he never responded. Cult brainwashed to turn against his MOM and DAD.
    Mary never got to see her son before she passed.
    Shameful CULT.

    RIP Mary

    Last edited: Jul 27, 2016
  2. Karen#1

    Karen#1 Gold Meritorious Patron

    Re: Mary Tabayoyin RIP

    From: Andre Tabayoyon <[email protected]>
    Newsgroups: alt.religion.scientology
    Subject: Casavius Tabayoyon
    Date: 21 Aug 1998 03:09:08 GMT

    Any Scientologist, Sea Org Member, OSA ,
    or anyone who can get this
    message Casavius Tabayoyon

    Please foreward to Casavius:

    Hello Son,

    You know it has been over 5 years
    now since you have written or spoken
    to us.

    We am really concerned that you have
    also not returned any of the calls we
    have placed to you.

    Grandmother(my mother) is asking to hear
    from you even a post card.

    You can not be upset with her,
    she knows nothing of our relationship.

    They are people who you love,
    yet you have decided to cut them out
    of your life and you enforce them to
    lose your loving manner and presence.

    Anita, your aunt has not recieved an
    answer to here calls to Flag, and
    Golden Era, they say you are not know

    Ramona, your other aunt finally recieved
    her kidney transplant, she got a
    second chance at life.

    Zeb now has two children,
    Joanie, is in Florida, and the
    CW base claims that they do not
    know who your are.

    Tess has had a third child and
    constanly asks of you.
    Her calls to Golden Era go ignored.

    Roman your uncle is asking me
    why your are ingoring your

    Gina and Ricky constantly ask
    for you.

    Romaldo and Joey are big
    now and wonder where you are.

    Alfred and his wife had a baby!!

    Maggie, and Jennie, want to
    see you desperatly

    Craig, Karen, Sharon, Susan,
    Kevin, Alias, Andrew your mothers
    brothers children all ask for you.

    Did you know Andrew won a scholarship
    to Northern Arizona University?

    Two years ago your Grandfather passed.
    He said that he loves you more
    that you could know, and he
    knows that you love him too.

    Casaivus you cannot deny these
    family connections.

    Please try to find a little
    forgiveness and compassion for us
    we are your family.

    We are people who love you.

    We represent many generations of your
    family line.

    Tabayoyon , Velasquez, Smith,
    Chambers, Garcia, Martinez,
    and Gomez family trees alive and well.

    From: Andre Tabayoyon <[email protected]>
    Newsgroups: alt.religion.scientology
    Date: 17 Apr 1998 20:42:00 -0700

    We departed the sea org in dec of 1992. Since that time we have not been able to communicate with our son.

    We have called. We have written letters. We have done everything we could to discover his where abouts.

    A year or so after we left we recieved a letter from casavius stating that because we left the church and no longer were part of it he would nolonger communicate with us. He wrote a few more letter that were harsh and cold directed to his mother to stop trying ot contact him.

    This no communication behavior toward someone (his mother) who cares and loves him so much is just not morally correct.

    We rasied our son to be a good person.

    He never disrespected me or his mother.

    So why would our decision to leave the church and the sea organization create such a reaction?

    Therefore we have concluded that Casivius our loving son has been murdered.

    Or is in extended Isolation in this or another country.

    We have decided that we want to ask the help of any one on the ARS to help us locate our dear SON,

    We cannot believe that our son would not ever want to see or talk to us again.

    His Name is

    Casavius Tabayoyon

    born 17 July 1972.

    he was last seen at Golden Era Studios.

    I will get a photo posted on the web.

    Our next step is of course filing a missing persons report with the FBI.

    We did want get this step done to have evidence that we have used the several means to locate our Son.

    If you locate him, tell him to call his mother 602-807-9351

    thanks in advance.

    Last edited: Jul 28, 2016
  3. Free to shine

    Free to shine Shiny & Free

    Re: Mary Tabayoyin RIP

    That is so terribly, terribly sad. It makes my heart ache.

    Rest in Peace Mary.

  4. Mimsey Borogrove

    Mimsey Borogrove Crusader

    Re: Mary Tabayoyin RIP

    They keep doing this, and keep pissing people off and the negative PR keeps building. They keep digging that grave one disconnection after another, and one day the earth is going to collapse and bury them. It is so short sighted, but for all their obnosis drills, they can't see the handwriting on the wall. Sad and criminal.

    The end result of this policy they are enforcing reminds me of the final scene in Deliverance as they float by, lifeless beneath the surface.


  5. scooter

    scooter Gold Meritorious Patron

    Re: Mary Tabayoyin RIP

    This is why ....

    Tick fucking tock Davey Boy - no matter how high your heels are now, you'll still get drowned in the wave of shit heading your way.

    The wheels of justice grind slowly but they do grind fine. You and Your willing minions will find that out, hopefully sooner rather than later.
  6. Karen#1

    Karen#1 Gold Meritorious Patron

    Re: Mary Tabayoyin RIP

    One more note on Mary Tabayoyin.

    In days when it was still precarious to speak out (1994) Mary spoke out in the legal arena against the Cult.
    Graham Berry recounts how she helped his litigation.

    Here is an Affidavit Mary let the world know about INT Base/GOLD Base and the enforced abortions.

    Mary's affidavit touched the hearts of many, as her experience was heart-wrenching and so degrading.
    Eventually a juggernaut of outrage occurred in Legal and on the Internet with this *cherch* on the enforced abortions. Mary's voice had far reaching outcomes.
  7. Gizmo

    Gizmo Rabble Rouser

    Re: Mary Tabayoyin RIP

    So sad. The loss of another really good person.

    Little in my life brings me to tears, but, damn if these disconnections don't still bring me to tears for those it so harms.
  8. Lurker5

    Lurker5 Gold Meritorious Patron

    Re: Mary Tabayoyin RIP

    RIP :rose:
  9. ethercat

    ethercat Cat in flight

    My condolences to Andre, and to Casavius also, in case he ever runs across this thread.
  10. Gizmo

    Gizmo Rabble Rouser

    Well, every scientologist is on the road to be an X & then joining us here on ESMB.
  11. cakemaker

    cakemaker Patron Meritorious

  12. exseaorgclocmoflagetc

    exseaorgclocmoflagetc Patron with Honors

    I knew Casavius for a short timewhen we were both very little kids at PAC.... Throuhg looking through past kids Facebook friends...I found his FB with his knew name....I'll try to look it up again...but he was working in some very remote location with a new last name running a Church based school. If I find the page again..I'll be sure to link it here. Talk about vengeful..having his last name changed and adopted for their odd reasons.