Miscavige's niece speaks up on disconnection

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This was posted on a.r.s. by Chuck Beatty:
http://groups.google.com/group/alt....hread/22115114d2a647a2?hl=en#49742373277e277f
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Dear Karin [Pouw, spokesperson for official Scientology],


"I could not resist the opportunity to write you this letter having read your official rebuttal regarding the Tom Cruise biography.


"I have been involved in the Church of Scientology since birth. David Miscavige as you well know is my father's brother, making him my uncle.


"In fact you and I actually know each other although not very well.


"I cannot comment on your responses regarding the personal life of Tom Cruise because I know nothing about this, but I am absolutely shocked at how vehemently you insist upon not only denying the truths that have been stated about the Church in that biography, but then take it
a step further and tell outright lies.


"You go so far as to state:

'7. Does Scientology encourage their members not to speak to their family if they don't support the religion?


'This allegation is not only false, it is the opposite of what the Church believes and practices.' -Karin Pouw


"As you well know, my parents officially left the Church when I was 16 in 2000. I, having been separated from them at the age of 12 and thoroughly engulfed in the beliefs of the Church since birth decided not to go with them.


"Not only was I not allowed to speak to them, I was not allowed to answer a phone for well over a year, in case it was them calling me. To give exact specifics, this "law" was enforced ruthlessly by one Tracye Danilovoch - the local representative for the Religious Technology Center - who intercepted all letters from my parents (and my friends). She would then pass them on to Marc Rathbun (the then 2nd in command of the Church) and Mike Rinder - who happens to be the former head of YOUR office - "The Office of Special Affairs" (you can thank me later for not elaborating on this one). Only after they had seen the letters and decided it was ok for me to see them would I receive some of them while sitting in a board room while they watched me read them and asked me to comment on them.


"I was allowed to visit my parents from the age of 16-22, once a year for a maximum of 3-4 days, but that was only after they (my parents) threatened legal action if the Church got in the way of this and even then only after I underwent a "Security Check Confessional" before I saw them and immediately after I came back. A security check is interrogation (usually about if I intend on leaving the Church, or finding out if my parents have said anything bad about the Church, etc.) while being attached to an electrophsychometer which is similar to a lie detector. This happened every single time I saw then (which was never more than 3 or 4 days a year).


"For a more recent example of families being destroyed, My Aunt Jennifer Pantermeuhl has recently contacted my parents and let them know that she can no longer speak to them or be in contact with them because they speak to and live near, my other Aunt Sarah Mortland.
Sarah is my mom's and Jennifer's sister. This is because Sarah is not in favor with the Church. Jennifer also contacted my brother Sterling as well as the rest of the family for the same reason most of whom had to lie to her and said they weren't talking to Sarah for fear of getting found out about.


"Another good example would be when my other brother, Justin, was in Florida a few years ago and was on his way to visit our Aunt Denise Gentile (our father's sister and David Miscavige's twin) with his girlfriend. Denise abruptly cancelled while they were on their way over because the Church would not approve - because he was an ex- member. Not to mention the fact that Kirsten Caetano (a member of the Church's Office of Special Affairs - the very same organization you belong to) was contacting Justin several times when he was in Florida working, telling him that he needed to leave the state because he is an ex-member and his presence at the "mecca of scientology" was disturbing to the church. Kristen has admitted to my face that she did this when I confronted her and even went so far as to admit that she lied to my brother after denying the incident. This is the least of what Kirsten Caetano has done!


"You cite this quote from L.Ron Hubbard about what the Church believes with regards to families..... yes we know what the Church claims to "believe" and has written in its policies! - BUT do they practice that? Absolutely not!


" I can name at least 5 friends off the top of my head who's family members are not allowed to speak to them without being themselves ousted from the Church and prevented from communicating with other members of their family and even their children still involved in the Church lest THEY too be ousted! They cant speak to their children because they have left the Church on their own determinism. This is a widespread practice and if you dare deny it I have a list of all of there names together-these people's families are crying every day because they can't speak to their children who did nothing but leave
the Church of their own free will.


"If I am in fact wrong and you want to prove me as such, then allow me and my family to be in contact with our family members that are still part of the Church such as my Grandpa, Ron Miscavige, and his wife, Becky. Allow the same of my friends. And don't even start with the, "it's their choice all along story..." -nobody is going to buy that, there are way too many destroyed families for that to be true.


"I am tempted to take up many of the other accusations you categorically deny in your novel, but for the purpose of keeping this letter readable and focused on the most important part (family) I will resist.


"I will suggest however that maybe you should spend the manpower and time of drafting your masterpiece rebuttal - why don't you take the high road for once and put that time towards repairing the families you have destroyed, starting with the family of David Miscavige himself - hell, if Scientology can't keep his family together - then why on earth should anyone believe the Church helps bring families together!


"Best,

"Jenna Miscavige Hill"
 
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Bea Kiddo

Crusader
Wow. I am really glad she is speaking out.

When I was auditing her at Flag, her main beef was that she was seperated from her family as well. She did not mention that part in the letter. She was sent to Flag for a few years and during that time all she wanted was to see her family again. (Who were uplines at the time.)

The only family member that she seemed slightly close with, was Shelley Miscavige. I could be wrong on that.

She did not mention much on that.

But if she wanted to see pictures or letters from her family, she had to go into Ann Rathbuns office (The RTC Office at Flag), to see them.

She could not have or keep any communication or photos of her family.

(Since she is talking, I will too, for her).
 

everfree

Patron Meritorious
Wow, just wow! It's getting difficult for DM and CofS to keep any sort of PR "area control". Their lies, whitewash, and overall craziness are being exposed on every turn.
 

OHTEEATE

Silver Meritorious Patron
Hooray, Jenna!

You are absolutely right to come out and be up front. There are many, many families destroyed by Scientology. I am disconnected from over 30 family members because I am no longer a Scientologist and a critic of that organization. My own Mother can not speak to me. My own Son and Daughter, my Brother, my four Sisters, and all their children, cannot speak to me. I am dead to them. Now is the time to go to the window, open it, and stick your head out and tell them- "I'm MAD AS HELL, and I'm not going to take this anymore!" Reform the CofS NOW!
 

sabrina

Patron
I read this today. If anyone knows Jenna, I would love to speak to her. I knew her at Flag, not well, but I definantly saw her around. I would love to express how strong she is for speaking out. She should write a book!:happydance: :thumbsup:
 

Terril park

Sponsor
Seems inevitable this will make major media. Iteresting to speculate on how the Church handles that.

What was that about popcorn?
 

Div6

Crusader
I read this today. If anyone knows Jenna, I would love to speak to her. I knew her at Flag, not well, but I definantly saw her around. I would love to express how strong she is for speaking out. She should write a book!:happydance: :thumbsup:

Hi Sabrina,


It looks like the message was originally posted to the Alt.Religion.Scientology newsgroup by Chuck Beatty. His email address is chuckbeatty77 @aol.com.

He is EX-SO, and could perhaps get you in touch.
 

Pascal

Silver Meritorious Patron
You are absolutely right to come out and be up front. There are many, many families destroyed by Scientology. I am disconnected from over 30 family members because I am no longer a Scientologist and a critic of that organization. My own Mother can not speak to me. My own Son and Daughter, my Brother, my four Sisters, and all their children, cannot speak to me. I am dead to them. Now is the time to go to the window, open it, and stick your head out and tell them- "I'm MAD AS HELL, and I'm not going to take this anymore!" Reform the CofS NOW!

True that. Disconnection is for morons like DM. A true Scientologist handles. I never disconnected from anyone, apart from the odd one night stand. :p
 

chipgallo

Patron Meritorious
It's hard for me to read this stuff without tearing up. When I worked in HCO at DC Org, they wanted me to declare an auditor who wanted to route off staff and work in Chicago to pay her freeloaders debt. I basically refused to declare her a SP because I knew she wasn't an SP by any reasonable standard.

That lady went on to pay her debt and do more services for many years. It made business sense to keep her onlines. An SP declare would have made it more difficult to get OT level clearance and she might have never returned.

This disconnection policy is the worst PR nightmare one could imagine, aside from the human rights aspect. It is cruel/unusual punishment. I'm glad that more people are speaking out against the policy and look forward to the day when all the broken families are reunited!
 

Pascal

Silver Meritorious Patron
It's hard for me to read this stuff without tearing up. When I worked in HCO at DC Org, they wanted me to declare an auditor who wanted to route off staff and work in Chicago to pay her freeloaders debt. I basically refused to declare her a SP because I knew she wasn't an SP by any reasonable standard.

That lady went on to pay her debt and do more services for many years. It made business sense to keep her onlines. An SP declare would have made it more difficult to get OT level clearance and she might have never returned.

This disconnection policy is the worst PR nightmare one could imagine, aside from the human rights aspect. It is cruel/unusual punishment. I'm glad that more people are speaking out against the policy and look forward to the day when all the broken families are reunited!


Disconnection is warranted if you cannot handle. But then again, if you cannot handle, then you have no business calling yourself a Scientologist or being on staff or SO. And of course if someone is falsely labeled an SP you get into forced disconnection and that is a source of ARCX.

Where is the love? Where is the greatness?
 

Lovesnightsky

Silver Meritorious Patron
Exile

When my family and I were exiled from our native country by a fascist dictator in 1973, my mother told me that exile had been invented (can't remember if the greeks or romans) as a punishment worse than death because it was a total disconnection from everyone and everything one knew, and made to live through it.

It is a horrible thing to do to anyone, and being declared by the church of scientolgy, particulary for someone who has been in the church for a number of years, is basically sending them to exile.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Exile
 
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