Hi Steven. Congrats on being declared! I haven't been around in a while, but this thread caught my attention because I had a similar situation go on in terms of my mailbox filling with their junk mail. It went on for many years.
It was only very recently that I figured out that I am most likely declared now because I haven't received a single piece of mail in over a year. Not a phone call either. I'd been out for 18 years and they were still sending me mail! Every org, sometimes in duplicate because I had a married name and a maiden name. Idiots!
It all stopped when I got someone from Scn Int on the phone who wanted me to watch a video of the latest event. I kept telling him no. I was not interested in being a Scientologist anymore. I told him I was shoving all their junk mail back into their postage paid reply envelopes and sending them back, and demanding they take me off the mailing lists--I'd even threatened to sue. Nothing was working. I told the guy all this and he laughed. He just kept asking me what the ARC break was.
I was like, are you daft?! I'm an enemy. I should be declared. I'm writing a anti-Scientology book that I plan to publish, and you guys are sending me mail to come on the fucking Freewinds? What is wrong with you? Stop bugging me.
He still wanted to know what my ARC break was. He also thought the DVD would change my mind. I told him I'd make him a deal. To send the DVD, and if it didn't intrigue me that he must call AO, Asho, CC, Flag, Bridge Pub, and the Freewinds and take me off every single list--both of my names, as well as my dead relatives. (I was getting mail for them too).
When the DVD came, I actually watched it. It only made me laugh with anger and irritation. The guy called back a couple weeks later. I told him if he contacted me again, by phone or mail, I was going to call my lawyer and I never heard a thing again. I'm pretty sure I'm declared. I don't know how to find out, but I do not care. There will be no doubt in my mind come April when my book is released. They will get all the information about my "ARC break." LOL!
You seem to be very well-adjusted to being out and declared. That's great news. It took quite a while to get where I am. I was in for 20 years.