uniquemand
Unbeliever
Sounds good. It's important to let him know that you respect his right to hold whatever views he likes, and that you respect his integrity in fighting for them in the face of adversity, that sort of thing. Don't say anything untrue! You may not respect his beliefs, you may not agree with his interpretation of what has been happening, but he has a right to it, as do you.
If you maintain an open communication attitude, and don't make the conflict the centerpiece, you may see him more and more. This would be good for all involved, I think. The more he realizes he is allowed to have his views, and that there is a safe place for him in his family outside the Church, the more possible it becomes for him to consider leaving (though that might never happen for irrational but powerful reasons). Make it EASY for him to do that.
I'm glad it's worked out well, so far.
If you maintain an open communication attitude, and don't make the conflict the centerpiece, you may see him more and more. This would be good for all involved, I think. The more he realizes he is allowed to have his views, and that there is a safe place for him in his family outside the Church, the more possible it becomes for him to consider leaving (though that might never happen for irrational but powerful reasons). Make it EASY for him to do that.
I'm glad it's worked out well, so far.