When talking about international politics here, it soon or later comes aboutTrump..which we have many good reasons to hold in disgust
it is either an impediement to digest the good wine and beans
depressing, or it people takes on it are to the extreme, it will ruin the pleasure to meet.
(here again, there might be a cultural topic..dinner time for latin may be a religious activity in itself in reuniting with dear ones , and make it a time we share about each other)
Some topics hits people to their very core values...it becomes very emotional and this is what is happening with politic in these days, on one side or the other. Some of my american friends whispered me that it has become the same in many american houses , purposely to prevent a divorce.
Polarizing people often takes great pleasure in dividing people, groups, nations, creating quarrels, emotionnal responses... etc..I prefer to ignore these people and don't let them come in my house and trouble my waters... my home remains my peaceful safe space, the only one I can control and where I ca reunite the winning conditions to digest this beaufitul combination of wine and beans....