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If you do not want to be left with nothing (if you co-own your accounts and property--then start taking action sooner than later or you will go down the tubes iwth this loved one. Dont let this happen.
I hope that you can wake this person up but honestly --many have tried with loved ones and friends and most have failed. The scn's know excactly how to make you and your loved one feel like the best thing since sliced bread and THAT is the trap. Only problem is that it is all a lie. The moment you or he/she stop playing the game-you become enemy #1. ALSO once your loved one starts auditing-RUN! Because YOU will come up in auditing as a problem and then ethics will handle him/her to see that you are an enemy and do not want him/her to do well. Not only that but any intimate details that you share will become a written record that can be used against you.
So I say again-if you are not able to salvage this person soon--get your affairs in order, protect your assets without emotion and RUN--then start over.
I am sorry but this is the way it is. It happened to half or more of this board, including me.
PROTECT YOURSELF the moment you see that your efforts are not working-DO NOT trust a scn-ever.
Sad but very true. Getting a fanatic out of Scientology is a low-odds bet. And he is a fanatic - it doesn't take long at all for someone to become totally hooked. I've seen people join the Sea Org, signing a billion year contract, in as little as one week after walking into a church for the 1st time.