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Ogsonofgroo

Crusader
Horacio is Bill Yaude, OSA's Internet tool. He posts as Turtlez on OCMB.

Thank you Smurf mon, I had my suspicions about this troll from the git-go but have been hanging back to watch the retarded gyrations of one who figures they be pretty smert (pretty much a festival of *derp and *duh thus far) and witty (lolol, 'tool' is too nice).
Its kinda like a train with cracked wheels, watching and waiting for the wreck on a washed-out bridge ~ :melodramatic:
Only pathetically humorous, in a laugh at/not with way.

:drama:
 

AnonKat

Crusader
Surviving the Narcissist

Frequently Asked Question # 80


http://samvak.tripod.com/faq80.html

:coolwink:

I recently got out of a relationship that was one sided and abusive. This person was very narcissistic.

In self reflection, I discovered that I have had several realtionships of this type, including the one with scn. One of my parents and a sibling is also very Narcissistic!
This lead me to read up on co-dependence issues. Wow, what an eye opener! This is why I got into scn to fix only to have it take advantage of my need to feel helpful, valuable, and make a difference. Like dog training, it validates you when you do something of value for the org, and humiliates you when you don't.

I started to wonder if scn actually tries to lure people like me into the trap, to take advantage of this.
 

MrNobody

Who needs merits?
Quite right - any vulnerability will be exploited. And every living being and aspect of nature is special and miraculous - even the apparently *lifeless* parts.

So also is that which is beyond our present ability to perceive and understand.

[video=youtube;BkgN9OjMXgw]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BkgN9OjMXgw[/video]


Thanks! That was very beautiful.

I don't know that much about violin playing, so my 1st question was: How does one hold one tone on the violin for 45+ seconds without changing the direction of the bow? Because at 1st I didn't hear any changes of direction from the bow during that impressively long third note.

Then I hooked up my best headphones and listened to it again, this time more closely, and I could hear where these changes were. An awesome piece of music, greatly performed. I like it a lot.

Being a musician yourself, you probably understand why I like to get to the „technical“ stuff behind those things, eh?

However, thanks again. :)
 

Smilla

Ordinary Human
Pathological Narcissism is sometimes confused with Borderline Personality Disorder, which is similar in some regards. A person can also display both conditions which makes things even more complicated.

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Sindy

Crusader
Horacio is Bill Yaude, OSA's Internet tool. He posts as Turtlez on OCMB.

Like barnacles attached to the hull of a ship, Scientology has some utter nut jobs sucking at its wrinkled, dried up and cancerous tit.

What insanity -- an insane person doing the bidding of an insane cult, insanely trying to show the rational people it fears just how insane they are while the rational people stand by, watching aghast at the stupidity while remaining unscathed, shaking their heads as this continues, year after year, unabated; the damaged souls asserting their rights to perform the same crazy, nonsensical actions over, and over and over, never resulting in anything valuable to anyone, including the cult but lo, these many years, they can cry out, "Something Can Be Done About It"
 
Thanks for mentioning Borderline Personality disorder...my own personal least favorite type to work with...in fact, life's too short to engage with really toxic people! :thumbsup:

Here's a good quote from that website: http://samvak.tripod.com/faq80.html

This kindof sums it up for me: "Narcissists are addicts. They are no different to drug addicts. They are in pursuit of gratification through the drug known as Narcissistic Supply. Everything and EVERYONE around them is an object, a potential source (to be idealized) or not (and, then to be cruelly discarded).

Narcissists hone in on potential suppliers like cruise missiles. They are excellent at imitating emotions, at exhibiting the right behaviors on cue, and at manipulating."

Don't think you can help them, rescue them, or reform them...they need professional help and usually refuse it.

Rescue, reform and help yourself, instead! :) Work on improving your own life and lessening your own issues, rather than taking on someone else's problems as your own. That is the key secret to outgrowing Co-dependency and leaving it behind. :thumbsup: Easier said than done, but quite do-able! :happydance:
 

HoraciotheOT8

Patron with Honors
Now that's not very nice.

And then you finish it with "much love"?

Totally uncalled for remark, you should hang your head in shame. An apology is the least you should offer. :smack:

Ok, I am sorry. My remark was uncalled for.

I was reflecting on the definition of Narcissism when I wrote what I wrote, remembering how that very small percentage of the population that is exposed to Scientology, that stays in Scientology, tends to fit the bill. Out of context with the post and the poster I was responding to. My bad.

Narcissism: a term with a wide range of meanings, depending on whether it is used to describe a central concept of psychoanalytic theory, a mental illness, a social or cultural problem, or simply a personality trait. Except in the sense of primary narcissism or healthy self-love, "narcissism" usually is used to describe some kind of problem in a person or group's relationships with self and others. In everyday speech, "narcissism" often means egotism, vanity, conceit, or simple selfishness.

Scientologists are, by and large, Spiritually Narcissistic. As they put their 'bridge' above everything and everyone else. Factually. Generally using the Hubbardarian nonsense: "I am helping save the entire world" to justify their narcissism. Which is, of course, pure bull shit.

Nonetheless by reading the hate mail that followed my error (dislikes) one would think that I shot and killed a new born baby and then dismembered their parents, and ate them, all. Jeesh. A sensitive lot I would say. Lol.

much love,
Horacio
 

MrNobody

Who needs merits?
Ok, I am sorry. My remark was uncalled for.

I was reflecting on the definition of Narcissism when I wrote what I wrote, remembering how that very small percentage of the population that is exposed to Scientology, that stays in Scientology, tends to fit the bill. Out of context with the post and the poster I was responding to. My bad.

Well, if you would have stopped right here, I'd have been OK with that, but then you do this:

Narcissism: a term with a wide range of meanings, depending on whether it is used to describe a central concept of psychoanalytic theory, a mental illness, a social or cultural problem, or simply a personality trait. Except in the sense of primary narcissism or healthy self-love, "narcissism" usually is used to describe some kind of problem in a person or group's relationships with self and others. In everyday speech, "narcissism" often means egotism, vanity, conceit, or simple selfishness.

Scientologists are, by and large, Spiritually Narcissistic. As they put their 'bridge' above everything and everyone else. Factually. Generally using the Hubbardarian nonsense: "I am helping save the entire world" to justify their narcissism. Which is, of course, pure bull shit.

Blah, bah, blah. :puke:

Nonetheless by reading the hate mail that followed my error (dislikes) one would think that I shot and killed a new born baby and then dismembered their parents, and ate them, all. Jeesh. A sensitive lot I would say. Lol.

much love,
Horacio

Hate mail? :hysterical:
Hatemail?

Post your email addy right here and find out what hatemail really is. :biggrin:

BTW: I've not yet gotten to dislike your other post, but I did now.
 

renegade

Silver Meritorious Patron
I dunno about this apology.

Normally someone who is genuinely sorry doesn't have to be prodded to do so nor make excuses or justify with explanations why it was done.

A plain old I'm sorry would've been way more appreciated.
 

freethinker

Sponsor
He's a Narcissist so has to put lots of attention on himself.
I dunno about this apology.

Normally someone who is genuinely sorry doesn't have to be prodded to do so nor make excuses or justify with explanations why it was done.

A plain old I'm sorry would've been way more appreciated.
 

HoraciotheOT8

Patron with Honors
He's a Narcissist so has to put lots of attention on himself.

Well, in my world, when I don't exist, neither do you.

It's a fundamental consciousness thing.

Sorry for the inconvience.

Of dog shit reality.

Horacio

Would you have me make 'your' world more important, to me, than 'mine'?, when 'I do' exist?

Thanks, but I'll pass on 'that' offer.

Good luck with that though.

Been there. Done that.

Scientology, 101.


hc
 
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renegade

Silver Meritorious Patron
Nonetheless by reading the hate mail that followed my error (dislikes) one would think that I shot and killed a new born baby and then dismembered their parents, and ate them, all. Jeesh. A sensitive lot I would say. Lol.

much love,
Horacio

With this quote, now you owe appologies to those guys too.
 

HoraciotheOT8

Patron with Honors
With this quote, now you owe apologies to those guys too.

Tough task.

It's hard to apologize to someone you believe, or you imagine, hates you. At least it is for me.

Am I sorry for my stupid response to your otherwise beautifully heart felt (& heart written) post? Hell yes. God knows. I am (in secret).

But can I bring myself to apologize to those, I sincerely believe do not know me, like I do? I don't know. Thats a tough one..........pause for thought.........ok.....truth be known.... I am sorry, to each one and all of you.

I'll take a break from posting for a while. As an expression of my honest amends (i.e. shut up).

Horacio

October 24th, 2012....7:59 pm.....
 
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The_Fixer

Class Clown
I dunno about this apology.

Normally someone who is genuinely sorry doesn't have to be prodded to do so nor make excuses or justify with explanations why it was done.

A plain old I'm sorry would've been way more appreciated.

Since YOU were the one that has been slighted here, it is your call as to whether you accept the *ahem* apology or not. BTW, I agree with your sentiments as well.

I am not asking for any apology from him, I just felt that I needed to stand up for our friends around here.

I do not hate Horacio for what he said, I was just offended by that particular comment and felt the need to respond to it. The apology issue is for Renegade and Horacio to work out. :goodluck:
 

HoraciotheOT8

Patron with Honors
The apology issue is for Renegade and Horacio to work out. :goodluck:

I filed for divorce this morning. She gets the house the cars the business the dogs the cat the kids and the money (in savings). As for me, I get to keep all of L. Ron Hubbards books. What the hell, they cost me a small fortune. And I'm fairly certain they are going up in value every day. Kinda like my Facebook stock.

Horacio
 
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