Me too, all very business like. Something like," I noticed that our "R" was lowering but by the time I began working on it the "A" and the "C" were too far gone..."
I'm laughing just thinking of how a 2D hat turn-over would read
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There is a certain staff member in Miami who has been divorced a few times who gave her "Divorce Hat write-up" to her current husband's former wife. She's quite proud of that in fact.
Are you kidding!? What a fucking strange world we lived in.
"Heavy petting" (as it's called in the FO) is not allowed. Holding hands and kisses are allowed.SO's had it even worse! THEY couldn't even DATE, in the real sense...holding hands, meeting privately to talk, kissing, etc.. I don't think?
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True that my friend.
Damn. I just realized how horrible my avatar is.
Oh god this is so Clamish.
How dare you think sexy when practical is...well more practical.
I had a guy trying to dump his girlfriend on me. He told me they were breaking up and that she was interested in me. He wanted to turn over his hat. He didn't actually say he was "turning over his hat" but...the rest of the story is true
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I came on lines in the 70s. This was before TWTH and the only policy was Second Dynamic Rules. As public Scientologists we were flat out promiscuous. Basically everyone was having sex with everyone.
When I joined staff it changed slightly. The rule was you couldn't have sex with public if you were staff unless you were already having a 2D before the person got on lines. So.........
If you met some one cute while you were body routing or bookselling you had to make sure that you had sex with them before they started their first service. It was important to do this with anyone you might be interested in "just in case". If you failed to consumate before they started course, then you would have to recruit them before you could have sex with them. Really very simple once you get the hang of it.
Once when I was still a very new staff member a guy who was on staff and his girlfriend was too asked me if I wanted to have a 2D with him. I was confused. I asked if he still had his girlfriend or if they broke up. He said they hadn't broken up yet but he needed to know my answer before he completed his doubt formula. I didn't think that was very sexy at all.
Do I rememebr and FO about NOT using 2D flows to recruit people to the SO? Or was an affirmative - use them? My relationship with my parents today is colored by this evil religion. My father thinks I am and SP and my mother is PTS to me. They have both told me it would have been better if I had been killed in a car accident instead of my brother. They have both told me it is good I cannot pass on my DNA, that I should never have children. Funny thing is, if you know me, you know this is such BS. Mum is supicious of everything I do and has Dad in her ear telling her I am only using her.
I tried to find somehing to laugh at, but no, I had no fun on the 2d in Scientology.
Im so sorry you went through all that and still suffer from their ignorance and bigotry.
There is a certain staff member in Miami who has been divorced a few times who gave her "Divorce Hat write-up" to her current husband's former wife. She's quite proud of that in fact.
It's really hard for me to find a laugh on this aspect of Scn and the SO as I reckon it has caused absolute havock (how the F do I spell that?) and loss over my entire 2D. But, I recongise the healing power of laugh and so I shall try.
When I joined I was 16 and really just looking to get laid. I had been trying to relieve myself of my virginity since I was about 13 but lived in a very protected environment and it just wasn't going to happen. Steve Rule was cute, he was probably abit old for me but the "flows" were there so I was too! hah! Once I was on the EPF he was back out on mission and I think I saw him twice after that.
2D = other fish to fry = off purpose = perverted = 1D oriented (wahhh?)
Still looking for something funny...
nope, you know sex is only funny when you're getting some and in the SO...
Oh, I found one! I got Comm Eved for out 2D - The closest I got was cuddling on a couch with my fiance but no skin contact --- damn! This contributed to our breakup - before we managed to get married and consumate of course!
Ha haha
Nope, Scientology killed my parents marriage - it was a sham for 40 years until they finally broke up two years ago. It did this by upholding and promoting the veiw that my mother was a downstat psych case unworthy of respect. (Yes, we all know how compassionate scientology is). Scn killed both my engagements and the support from my "friends" and collegues after I was left at the alter twice could not even fill the space on the head of a pin. I was considered pathetic for feeling greif and it created layers of pain and self doubt that I still have not fully expunged to this day. For God's sake, I was gorgeous and vivacious and loving and yet I "knew" there had to be something wrong with me for no one to want a 2d with me.
Lastly there is Sceintology and the SO's perverted attitude toward children - basically that they are Dev-t to anyone who is really trying to do the right thing. It was so deep seated that it was not until I was 40+ that I even tried to start a family. Too late. No children for me, ever . And yes I am bitter and twisted and BLAME Hubbard, Scn and the SO for this. Perhaps it will shift one day but for now I am very aware of the influence that the SO had over my mind and lmy life on this topic. The attitude began at home from my Dad once he was very active and got ramped up every step up the org chart. I am not saying there were no other factors but belief is very powerful and this one was buried deep and early.
My relationship with my parents today is colored by this evil religion. My father thinks I am and SP and my mother is PTS to me. They have both told me it would have been better if I had been killed in a car accident instead of my brother. They have both told me it is good I cannot pass on my DNA, that I should never have children. Funny thing is, if you know me, you know this is such BS. Mum is supicious of everything I do and has Dad in her ear telling her I am only using her.
I tried to find somehing to laugh at, but no, I had no fun on the 2d in Scientology.
No, I KNOW the 2d was NOT fun for MANY of us in scn! And I soooo feel for you that you had such a rough and awful experience....
What a sad sack I am! Just so you know I do have a very strong and happy marriage now with my darling husband that is milles above any other joy in my life. I know LOVE. Maybe that was what was "wrong with me" in the SO. I expected a 2D to be filled with love as well as a good romp in the hay.
It's really hard for me to find a laugh on this aspect of Scn ......................
.... Just so you know I do have a very strong and happy marriage now with my darling husband that is milles above any other joy in my life. I know LOVE. Maybe that was what was "wrong with me" in the SO. I expected a 2D to be filled with love as well as a good romp in the hay.
Your experience with it all was horrid! Don't push the laughing bit - sometimes you've gotta cry first! Besides that, it's a pretty tough ask to laugh about something when it is still present, like it is in your case it is.
Sorry that the scene with your folks, and that you have the scenario you do in regard to kids. Given the whole deal, there'd be no argument that you're doing great, despite it all!
