ESMB is not here for the purpose of 'gently clearing the planet of sensitive scientologists ... without invalidating them' and I certainly didn't join ESMB to encourage people out of the cult though I do love seeing them getting out and will certainly assist if asked to and if I can.
I didn't leave one cult to try and create another.
About the only thing I will do (with enormous arrogance and as much invalidation as I can muster) is oppose anyone who is here for the purpose of trying to keep people in the scientology mindset, not because I believe it will change that persons behaviour (it won't) but because (hopefully) people already on the way out will realise that we don't play here (in the real world) by the cofs fake rules of 'communication' and will be encouraged to fully think for themselves again, possibly while disagreeing and objecting with the comments made.
Reaching understanding and being in 'ARC' isn't required and we all seem to cope quite well (lol) without it.
I absolutely love it when people start to 'decultify' but they have to do it themselves to really own it IMO and if they are here they have started that process ... what they don't need is 'Indies' getting in the way as they are working things out by trying to keep them in the mode and caught up in the introversion of scientology.
ITYIWT WINS THE THREAD!